LGBTQ+ Support Thread

[ec.li.ps.e]

Please. Why tf do I have a crush on someone over the internet
Like- She's nice like super nice- and I deadass have her picture as my background (don't tell xem--)
But like- I have a bf- but i'm poly- but- -sobs-
send help

you should talk to your bf! in any situation like this the best thing to do is communicate. actually i had a similar issue when i first started dating my girlfriend, as we were in (and still are, sadly) a long distance relationship at the time. and i developed a crush on one of my close friends, who we'll call V. so i told my gf (R) about it and we eventually came to a conclusion that worked for us, which was that as long as we were long distance we could each do whatever we wanted.... and then i saw R in person for the first time and the crush on V disappeared into thin air... so. yeah. the point is, communicate. if your bf is serious about making you happy, you'll likely be able to find a solution that works for both of you. and if you need any more advice, my dms are open.

 

[uuu_jiii]

you should talk to your bf! in any situation like this the best thing to do is communicate. actually i had a similar issue when i first started dating my girlfriend, as we were in (and still are, sadly) a long distance relationship at the time. and i developed a crush on one of my close friends, who we'll call V. so i told my gf (R) about it and we eventually came to a conclusion that worked for us, which was that as long as we were long distance we could each do whatever we wanted.... and then i saw R in person for the first time and the crush on V disappeared into thin air... so. yeah. the point is, communicate. if your bf is serious about making you happy, you'll likely be able to find a solution that works for both of you. and if you need any more advice, my dms are open.

WOW EXPERIENCE

 

[rosexoxo]

Just when I think I have my sexuality all figured out, I question myself once again.

 

[saaylhy]

so i just entered in the club yay~

 

[sanasideup]

i don't think i want a girlfriend anymore - i'm pretty sure i need one. seriously, i just want a girlfriend! i saw a (sapphic) sophomore couple today, and they were wearing matching hoodies, and i think that's so freaking cute. i want that, too!

 

[ec.li.ps.e]

i don't think i want a girlfriend anymore - i'm pretty sure i need one. seriously, i just want a girlfriend! i saw a (sapphic) sophomore couple today, and they were wearing matching hoodies, and i think that's so freaking cute. i want that, too!

if you go into a relationship like that, you're gonna end up in a bad one. be patient, im sure you'll find the right girl for you

 

[blackrose110]

you should talk to your bf! in any situation like this the best thing to do is communicate. actually i had a similar issue when i first started dating my girlfriend, as we were in (and still are, sadly) a long distance relationship at the time. and i developed a crush on one of my close friends, who we'll call V. so i told my gf (R) about it and we eventually came to a conclusion that worked for us, which was that as long as we were long distance we could each do whatever we wanted.... and then i saw R in person for the first time and the crush on V disappeared into thin air... so. yeah. the point is, communicate. if your bf is serious about making you happy, you'll likely be able to find a solution that works for both of you. and if you need any more advice, my dms are open.

his bf is shitty i don't trust him at all but if bestie wants to date him still (besides all the red flags) then i support him

 

[sanasideup]

just came out to my best friend as genderfluid. i gave her a letter, so she hasn't said anything yet. she's pretty accepting, and always encourages me to be my weird, bisexual self, so i'm sure she'll be supportive, but i'm still kinda nervous. it's been over 2 hours, and she still hasn't said anything....

 

[MiroshChaeray]

Spoiler: TW (jic)/rant

Have been reading up about top surgeries, and now I feel like crying.

Because, it's not that I truly identify as a man (though I think in my mind I lean more towards thinking of myself as "he" rather than "her"), but I've felt for quite some time (over a year at least) that I don't want them.
I have no use for them.
Like, I've decided long ago that I'm not having children, so there's literally no point in keeping them.
They make me feel, I don't know, uncomfortable?

Which, is fine. Is just, what makes me sad is the realization that my mother (a devout christian) won't understand and won't accept it (me).
She knows about my asexuality and is fine with that, but something like this... no. just no.

 

[MiroshChaeray]

just came out to my best friend as genderfluid. i gave her a letter, so she hasn't said anything yet. she's pretty accepting, and always encourages me to be my weird, bisexual self, so i'm sure she'll be supportive, but i'm still kinda nervous. it's been over 2 hours, and she still hasn't said anything....

Ah, I can understand why that would make you feel nervous.
Hope she'll get back to you soon. Also, proud of you.

 

[blackrose110]

Spoiler: TW (jic)/rant

Have been reading up about top surgeries, and now I feel like crying.

Because, it's not that I truly identify as a man (though I think in my mind I lean more towards thinking of myself as "he" rather than "her"), but I've felt for quite some time (over a year at least) that I don't want them.
I have no use for them.
Like, I've decided long ago that I'm not having children, so there's literally no point in keeping them.
They make me feel, I don't know, uncomfortable?

Which, is fine. Is just, what makes me sad is the realization that my mother (a devout christian) won't understand and won't accept it (me).
She knows about my asexuality and is fine with that, but something like this... no. just no.

im in the same boat as you tho my parents aren't christian but my aunt nd grandma is...

 

[MiroshChaeray]

im in the same boat as you tho my parents aren't christian but my aunt nd grandma is...

ah, sad to hear that. but, it is also nice to be able to talk with ppl who understands.

 

[blackrose110]

ah, sad to hear that. but, it is also nice to be able to talk with ppl who understands.

mhm! tho i hate the fact that im being misgender nd ppl using my dead name except in 3rd period

 

[MiroshChaeray]

mhm! tho i hate the fact that im being misgender nd ppl using my dead name except in 3rd period

Yeah, no wonder. I'd hate that too, that really does suck.

 

[blackrose110]

Yeah, no wonder. I'd hate that too, that really does suck.

yea...and i already have so many things to deal w/...

 

[MiroshChaeray]

yea...and i already have so many things to deal w/...

 

[blackrose110]

 

[sanasideup]

Ah, I can understand why that would make you feel nervous.
Hope she'll get back to you soon. Also, proud of you.

thank you sm! and she did get back to me. she said, "ik you are, it's okay," so, yay!

 

[MiroshChaeray]

thank you sm! and she did get back to me. she said, "ik you are, it's okay," so, yay!

That's wonderful! So happy for you.

 

[sanasideup]

i'm thinking about having gender-reassignment, surgery, but idk. ik that, with most doctors, you're required to have at least 2 years of hormone therapy before they'll do it, and ik that it's insanely expensive, too. i'm genderfluid, but i feel like i'd be more at home in a boy's body. but also like being a girl! but on the other hand, i'd rather be a feminine boy than a masculine girl. i'm super confused and idk what to do. ik for sure that i'm genderfluid, just not sure if i'm trans, too. i'll be genderfluid no matter what, i just think i'd prefer to do it in a male's body? idk