TW // caps, transphobia
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THERE ARE MORE THAN 2 GENDERS. I tried explaining this to my boyfriend the other day when we were on the topic of pronouns and he said "There's only he, she, and they. everything else is made up" and then I just sent him the link to this:
https://neoprns.carrd.co/# ... He went "oh yea, that bullsh*t, just use they/them it isn't that hard." I get that it's confusing at first but they are pronouns. I didn't agree with them at first but now I respect them because ND and people who come from other cultures use them. AND THEN HE MADE THE MOST TRANSPHOBIC COMMENT I HAVE HEARD TO DATE. He says:
in his exact words:
"Why is there a gender for every f*king person on earth?? There's too many. Why don't we just call them what they really are, PERSONALITIES"
Not only did that offend the shit out of me because I think i'm either a demi-girl or NB, but one of our best friends was Transgender but now they Identify as NB. He also went on to call every single gender I know of (that I listed) fake and made up and nobody identifies as those. Like holy shit, I love you, but shut up please. You literally know nothing about this, you are a straight white cis male who doesn't know what he's talking about. So much scientific proof about how there are more than 2 genders has come out yet you're calling everything I list fake. Is this how you want to make me feel, knowing damn well that I'm questioning my gender? I'm still so mad...