LGBTQ+ Support Thread

[ashesonthewind]

hello~~
Ash here ^-^
I’m a demiboy/masc-aligned nonbinary (i think, masc terms feel good, but ive never felt completely connected to them)
my pronouns are they/he
I’m panromantic, grey-ace, and ambiamorous (im open to polyam relationships but i dont actively seek them out) ^-^
it’s confusing :/
i generally just say im gay, but i’m in a straight relationship right now so—
yeah i could talk for hours about my gender identity and sexuality/romantic orientation but im not gonna
have a good gay y’all!

 

[ashesonthewind]

spspspsps so im transgender (ftm) and even tho i came out, my mom and dad keep telling me that im technically still a girl and idk what to do help

Same

ok im y’alls dad now hello sons

fyi that applies to anyone here who doesn’t have a supportive family, isn’t out to their family because they’re scared (or any other reason), doesn’t have a family, has been kicked out/disowned, or just wants a/nother dad im ur dad now give me hugs

 

[ashesonthewind]

I'm bisexual and I use They/Them pronouns. Sadly, my parents are against it.

heyyyy~~~ im ur dad now congrats
u have a supportive dad

*me at the old man golf meeting or whatever those are called idk i dont do golf*: so i have a new kid…… they’re bi and their bio parents aren’t supportive so i adopted them

 

[ashesonthewind]

um- i appreciate the sentiment but- if they use they/them pronouns then you should use that and also they’re probably not a boy /nm

I don't have a lot of friends like that, but in my old school I saw a boy who had they / them as pronouns and he was criticized
it's horrible
(i'm actually she/her, but the lgbt choose their voice. they have the right, and we have no right to criticize them for that.)

 

[𝓐𝓵𝓮𝓬_𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮!]

I'm pansexual/poly and i'm a demi-boy/trans non-binary and I use he/they pronouns

 

[ashesonthewind]

sometimes to avoid confusion and all of the dumb jokes about pansexuals being attracted to skillets and frying pans, i just say that i'm bisexual.
one time at a family gathering, my (religious) grandma was going off about sexualities that "don't exist" (basically, she was saying that anything that is not gay or straight is made up). when she started going on about bisexual people and saying all this dumb stuff, so i figured i would "make a joke", *wink wink* *hint hint* and when she said "I don't even know why people identify as these fake things, bisexuals don't even exist!" i just went "grandma,, i'm literally right here.." and she GASPED, like, she was sHoCkEd. my cousins that already knew were laughing their asses off and i could see that my grandma was getting kinda mad, so i was like 'oh god, im about to ruin my entire relationship with her, it's best that i tell her it was a joke' and i just go "It's a joke grandma, im straight hahaha" and she just went "you better be.." and then she lectured me about not joking around about stuff like that.
imagine what it's gonna be like when she attends my wedding haha
:>

hiiiii~ im ur granddad now
that sucks so bad i wish your family was as supportive as you deserve

 

[ashesonthewind]

ngl xavier is a whole slay but idk if that’s your favourite-
you should do what makes you happy
also- caspian???? such a slay!! /pos

uh so I'm a trans boy in training and I'm having a lot of trouble picking names. here's my list so far, if you wanna tell me your favorites or suggest other ones~

1. Blue
2. Juno
3. Apollo
4. Xavier
5. Killian
6. Caspian
7. Otto
8. Victor/Vincent?
9. Holland
10. Maddox
11. Demian
12. Olliver
13. Sebastian
14. Narciso

 

[ashesonthewind]

not me crying-

highkey me too-

 

[ashesonthewind]

i'm gonna re introduce myself here

my name is wyatt/adrian
my pronouns are xe/xem, he/him, they/them
i'm a pansexual trans-male
please be kind to me, as everyone else, as we've all faced lgbt-phobia.

hello!!! do u have a name you prefer over the other or should i pick one or should i use them interchangeably? /genq (oop- i just read your later post- hi adrian!!!!!)
i love neopronouns so much!!!! that’s such a slay for you!!! /pos

 

[ashesonthewind]

hello!
Im a trans, bi and pan girl and my name is mathew
my pronouns are him/he them/they he/him his/him

hi- real quick- not to say people can’t use masc pronouns/name with a fem gender identity but-
are you a boy? bc if you’re afab but feel like a boy then you’re 100% a boy and i love u <3 /p

 

[ashesonthewind]

I'm a gen. fluid bi guy who is the child of two homophobic white-asian parents

hi
im ur dad now
congrats
love u son <3
ur valid in who u are <3

 

[OhJaeeun]

Im Pan, Genderfluid(So- She/They/Him) And uh I am in love<3


Love yall(/p ofc)

 

[ashesonthewind]

hey- i know im hecka late but- can i join-

I-
kinda like it. i was going to say we should make a lgbtq+ club with all the lgbtq+ members only or like a gc do u wanna join?

 

[Call_MeRover]

Alot of my friends joke about me being gay.
should i be offended?

 

[ashesonthewind]

Would you be willing to become angry at homophobes because of a group chat I was put in just to be harassed?

bruh- that’s so awful-

 

[ashesonthewind]

Alot of my friends joke about me being gay.
should i be offended?

uhh- it depends on if they feel derogatory or just friendly. like my friends (queer themselves) will call me the f-slur as a joke (i call myself it too and we always ask before we call somebody a slur or reclaimed term even as a joke) and it doesn’t offend me, but if someone made a joke that felt derogatory id obv be offended

 

[Call_MeRover]

uhh- it depends on if they feel derogatory or just friendly. like my friends (queer themselves) will call me the f-slur as a joke (i call myself it too and we always ask before we call somebody a slur or reclaimed term even as a joke) and it doesn’t offend me, but if someone made a joke that felt derogatory id obv be offended

Okay.

 

[🌸⋅ ☆𝙆𝙄𝙏𝙏𝙄 ୧ ‧₊˚ 🌸 ⋅ ☆]

I'm Basically double bi
I'm Bigender and Bisexual
I go by She/He/Xe
Basically I use Xe.
and I'm Ace
I go by names Gregs/Gregory and Anything else like a nickname my friends make up for me. <3

 

[Call_MeRover]

Idk what i am anymore..
its all so confusing

 

[🌸⋅ ☆𝙆𝙄𝙏𝙏𝙄 ୧ ‧₊˚ 🌸 ⋅ ☆]

it is quite confusing