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hello~~
Ash here ^-^
Iโ€™m a demiboy/masc-aligned nonbinary (i think, masc terms feel good, but ive never felt completely connected to them)
my pronouns are they/he
Iโ€™m panromantic, grey-ace, and ambiamorous (im open to polyam relationships but i dont actively seek them out) ^-^
itโ€™s confusing :/
i generally just say im โœจgayโœจ, but iโ€™m in a straight relationship right now soโ€”
yeah i could talk for hours about my gender identity and sexuality/romantic orientation but im not gonna :D
have a good gay yโ€™all!
 

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spspspsps so im transgender (ftm) and even tho i came out, my mom and dad keep telling me that im technically still a girl and idk what to do ๐Ÿค  help
ok im yโ€™alls dad now hello sons

fyi that applies to anyone here who doesnโ€™t have a supportive family, isnโ€™t out to their family because theyโ€™re scared (or any other reason), doesnโ€™t have a family, has been kicked out/disowned, or just wants a/nother dad :D im ur dad now give me hugs
 

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I'm bisexual and I use They/Them pronouns. Sadly, my parents are against it.
heyyyy~~~ im ur dad now congrats
u have a supportive dad :D

*me at the old man golf meeting or whatever those are called idk i dont do golf*: so i have a new kidโ€ฆโ€ฆ theyโ€™re bi and their bio parents arenโ€™t supportive so i adopted them :)
 

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um- i appreciate the sentiment but- if they use they/them pronouns then you should use that and also theyโ€™re probably not a boy /nm
I don't have a lot of friends like that, but in my old school I saw a boy who had they / them as pronouns and he was criticized
it's horrible
(i'm actually she/her, but the lgbt choose their voice. they have the right, and we have no right to criticize them for that.)
 

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sometimes to avoid confusion and all of the dumb jokes about pansexuals being attracted to skillets and frying pans, i just say that i'm bisexual.
one time at a family gathering, my (religious) grandma was going off about sexualities that "don't exist" (basically, she was saying that anything that is not gay or straight is made up). when she started going on about bisexual people and saying all this dumb stuff, so i figured i would "make a joke", *wink wink* *hint hint* and when she said "I don't even know why people identify as these fake things, bisexuals don't even exist!" i just went "grandma,, i'm literally right here.." and she GASPED, like, she was sHoCkEd. my cousins that already knew were laughing their asses off and i could see that my grandma was getting kinda mad, so i was like 'oh god, im about to ruin my entire relationship with her, it's best that i tell her it was a joke' and i just go "It's a joke grandma, im straight hahaha" and she just went "you better be.." and then she lectured me about not joking around about stuff like that.
imagine what it's gonna be like when she attends my wedding haha
:>

hiiiii~ im ur granddad now :D
that sucks so bad :( i wish your family was as supportive as you deserve :(
 

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ngl xavier is a whole slay but idk if thatโ€™s your favourite-
you should do what makes you happy :D
also- caspian???? such a slay!! /pos

uh so I'm a trans boy in training and I'm having a lot of trouble picking names. here's my list so far, if you wanna tell me your favorites or suggest other ones~


  1. Blue
  2. Juno
  3. Apollo
  4. Xavier
  5. Killian
  6. Caspian
  7. Otto
  8. Victor/Vincent?
  9. Holland
  10. Maddox
  11. Demian
  12. Olliver
  13. Sebastian
  14. Narciso
 

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i'm gonna re introduce myself here

my name is wyatt/adrian
my pronouns are xe/xem, he/him, they/them
i'm a pansexual trans-male
please be kind to me, as everyone else, as we've all faced lgbt-phobia.

hello!!! do u have a name you prefer over the other or should i pick one or should i use them interchangeably? /genq (oop- i just read your later post- hi adrian!!!!!)
i love neopronouns so much!!!! thatโ€™s such a slay for you!!! /pos
 

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hello!
Im a trans, bi and pan girl and my name is mathew
my pronouns are him/he them/they he/him his/him
hi- real quick- not to say people canโ€™t use masc pronouns/name with a fem gender identity but-
are you a boy? bc if youโ€™re afab but feel like a boy then youโ€™re 100% a boy and i love u <3 /p
 

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Alot of my friends joke about me being gay.
should i be offended?
 

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Alot of my friends joke about me being gay.
should i be offended?
uhh- it depends on if they feel derogatory or just friendly. like my friends (queer themselves) will call me the f-slur as a joke (i call myself it too and we always ask before we call somebody a slur or reclaimed term even as a joke) and it doesnโ€™t offend me, but if someone made a joke that felt derogatory id obv be offended
 

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uhh- it depends on if they feel derogatory or just friendly. like my friends (queer themselves) will call me the f-slur as a joke (i call myself it too and we always ask before we call somebody a slur or reclaimed term even as a joke) and it doesnโ€™t offend me, but if someone made a joke that felt derogatory id obv be offended
Okay.
 
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