LGBTQ+ Support Thread

[izyun]

bisexual, she/her or any pronouns

 

[Seogi]

Yup, I'm aroace. I said it.

 

[chaechae.core]

I think my gender will always be female, but terms of sexuality,
i've really thought about it and in the end, im happy with unlabeled.
i dont think im straight though so ig thats about it

 

[yunaing]

If it brings people here comfort, since I’m seeing quite a few people saying they don’t know their sexuality.

You don’t owe anyone your sexuality. You don’t have to know yourself. I think there is a lot of emphasis from people online who want social currency to label as many things about themselves as possible so that they can express that they’re different from other people. In reality, sexuality just doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things. When I was younger, I wanted that label because I wanted to know who I was. I clung to the label so desperately because it felt like who I was and who I had to be. I experienced a lot of confusion because my mum would emphasise things like “it might change” or “you don’t know yet” and it caused me a lot of stress. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve put less and less emphasis on my sexuality for myself. I won’t lie and say I don’t struggle with identity issues at all, but there’s a lot less stress for me now. Personally I know right now I 100% like women, and I have no interest in guys, but I ended up preferring the label sapphic because it can account for any dating I choose, because at the end of the day liking women while being a woman is the only criteria for being sapphic. But, even that still counts as a label. You don’t need one at all if you don’t want one or haven’t found one you feel comfortable with. Just date who you want to date! If you like someone that’s great! You might feel more free in your life by just following your heart instead of a definition given to you online

 

[iiserene;]

I can help you!

please do so
whenever someone asks me what my sexuality is, i am tired of just saying bisexual without actually being 100% sure if i am or not

 

[Seogi]

I think my gender will always be female, but terms of sexuality,
i've really thought about it and in the end, im happy with unlabeled.
i dont think im straight though so ig thats about it

Please take your time Suki!

 

[Seogi]

please do so
whenever someone asks me what my sexuality is, i am tired of just saying bisexual without actually being 100% sure if i am or not

Of course, Pm me.

 

[Seogi]

If it brings people here comfort, since I’m seeing quite a few people saying they don’t know their sexuality.

You don’t owe anyone your sexuality. You don’t have to know yourself. I think there is a lot of emphasis from people online who want social currency to label as many things about themselves as possible so that they can express that they’re different from other people. In reality, sexuality just doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things. When I was younger, I wanted that label because I wanted to know who I was. I clung to the label so desperately because it felt like who I was and who I had to be. I experienced a lot of confusion because my mum would emphasise things like “it might change” or “you don’t know yet” and it caused me a lot of stress. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve put less and less emphasis on my sexuality for myself. I won’t lie and say I don’t struggle with identity issues at all, but there’s a lot less stress for me now. Personally I know right now I 100% like women, and I have no interest in guys, but I ended up preferring the label sapphic because it can account for any dating I choose, because at the end of the day liking women while being a woman is the only criteria for being sapphic. But, even that still counts as a label. You don’t need one at all if you don’t want one or haven’t found one you feel comfortable with. Just date who you want to date! If you like someone that’s great! You might feel more free in your life by just following your heart instead of a definition given to you online

This is so sweet Miel. Thank you so much. <3

 

[izyun]

Of course, Pm me.

Gigi i might want help too but i also like being unlabeled but im thinking about it rn

 

[Seogi]

Gigi i might want help too but i also like being unlabeled but im thinking about it rn

Of course Iz! Please pm me. <3

 

[chaechae.core]

thank you seogi

Please take your time Suki!

 

[Seogi]

thank you seogi

Of course, Suki. This is probably a tough decision because your a Muslim. But I know you can do it!

 

[Rengya_Utoma]

I'm a Christian, and I'm one of the gayest people on Earth. Not really actually, most people assume I'm straight, but then when they figure out I'm Omnisexual, it makes sense to them.

 

[izyun]

just gonna revive this by saying
friends to lovers>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
anyways peace

 

[Call_MeRover]

I'm straight for now.Alex-Lei/I'm an ally,

 

[kirby]

he/him
unlabeled

 

[ur.local.dino]

guys, i’m fucking gay

 

[ahinromantic]

she/her
omnisexual, but questing lesbianism.

 

[soobinzz]

she/they
bisexual but is questioning

 

[Seogi]

guys, i’m fucking gay

You have a gf-