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right! ppl sexualize children wayyyy too much.The whole coming out thing just… shouldn’t be a thing if you ask me.
One thing I find interesting is how society is absolutely appauled at the idea of asexuals, but they also just believe their children are straight. How are they uncomfortable with the idea of a child deciding they don’t want sex, while simultaneously labelling them as a sexuality??
To me, children should just be asexual. Full stop. Even if we don’t label them that way, society should think of children as asexual. Then, everyone would have a “coming out” moment when they’re old enough to realise what they want. And that can also change as they get older. That’s why I wanted to just be able to tell my dad in that natural way, because I didn’t want it to be any different to how a straight child would reveal their interests too. I hope one day soon I can just bring it up so it doesn’t feel like I’m purposefully hiding it
and i had an idea; obviously this may not work for you, but maybe if you have a crush on anyone you could mention it to your dad? like, the same way a straight kid would casually mention a crush, you could do the same. idk, just an idea lol