LGBTQ+ Support Thread

[OppaIsTrash]

Who else hasn't told their parents your pronouns and sexuality

my pronouns are assumed since im cis, but i havent actually come out to any of my family. i'm 26 and still live with my dad and two brothers, but only my younger brother knows im queer. im not close with my family in general, so even tho i dont hide it, it just doesn't really come up.

i can't give you any personal advice, but you could try to get a feel for what your parents might respond with by checking their reactions to a film or celebrity. take your time if you feel you aren't ready yet, and i hope for the best for you.

 

[red riot114]

Who else hasn't told their parents your pronouns and sexuality

me

 

[Hailey]

my pronouns are assumed since im cis, but i havent actually come out to any of my family. i'm 26 and still live with my dad and two brothers, but only my younger brother knows im queer. im not close with my family in general, so even tho i dont hide it, it just doesn't really come up.

i can't give you any personal advice, but you could try to get a feel for what your parents might respond with by checking their reactions to a film or celebrity. take your time if you feel you aren't ready yet, and i hope for the best for you.

Thank ou for your feedback I will try that

 

[Hailey]

My mom is ok with trans and bi people but idk

 

[OppaIsTrash]

My mom is ok with trans and bi people but idk

thats a good sign. like i said, dont feel like you have to come out to them if you're not ready. you come out on your own terms. take it easy and tale care of yourself~

 

[cix.sense]

Who else hasn't told their parents your pronouns and sexuality

i told my mother in early march about my sexuality...she was happy i told her, plus her sister is also part of the lgbtq+ community.

 

[yunaing]

Who else hasn't told their parents your pronouns and sexuality

I’m cis so pronouns are known, but my dad, step-mum and half sister don’t know I’m a lesbo

 

[rosexoxo]

Hello! My pronouns are She/Her. I’m lesbian, but lately I’ve found myself being super intrested with guys. I don’t see this as problem, but its making me question if lesbian is the correct label for me.

 

[cix.sense]

Hello! My pronouns are She/Her. I’m lesbian, but lately I’ve found myself being super intrested with guys. I don’t see this as problem, but its making me question if lesbian is the correct label for me.

I hope you get things figured out soon <3

 

[rosexoxo]

I hope you get things figured out soon <3

Thank you so much!

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

I identify as a lesbian

When I was 14 I got my first girlfriend (behind my mum’s back, not proud of it but yeh) and that was when I really realised how happy I was with the idea of dating girls, and how little interest I had in guys.
I’d never even planned to come out to my mum. She’d always taught me that I could come home with a girlfriend and she wouldn’t care (but tbh I think it would still be a huge shock since I’d never “shown signs of being gay” and “I didn’t look like a lesbian”). However she was talking about me having a future husband, and checked to see if I was straight and I dropped a “well actually”.
For a while she kept telling me how I was too young to know and that things always change and stuff. It was annoying because I was finally happy with who I was and fully embracing my love for girls while my mum was basically just doing the “it’s just a phase” shit.
Anyways eventually I broke down telling her it was more confusing to have her constantly telling me I would turn straight instead of just letting me identify how I wanted to.

I find it so annoying how if a kid said they were straight at 15 everyone would just be like “okay” but as soon as I say “hey I’m a lesbian” I’m always told “you’ll end up straight one day”. YOU HAVENT SEEN ME FANGIRLING OVER MAMAMOO mAm

Mood, I'm not going to lie fangirling over Lalisa, Jennie, Tzuyu, Momo, etc it's omg.

 

[anmybeloved]

I'm a gen. fluid bi guy who is the child of two homophobic white-asian parents

 

[red riot114]

I'm a gen. fluid bi guy who is the child of two homophobic white-asian parents

...ADOPTION FO CHU! HI LIL BROTHER!!!

 

[anmybeloved]

...ADOPTION FO CHU! HI LIL BROTHER!!!

yUh got adopted by a 17 year old (Dani) and now i have a 15 year old brother

 

[red riot114]

yUh got adopted by a 17 year old (Dani) and now i have a 15 year old brother

who is a crackhead and a bisexual, pan, trans, maybe a non-binary mess

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

Hello Everyone. I'm Pansexual and I go by he/him/she/her. I thought I was Bi for about a year but I have come out as Pansexual for 3 years now. I'm proud even when people bully me saying "You like Pans?" "You f**k Pans?" But I try to not listen to them but sometimes it's hard...

 

[anmybeloved]

Hello Everyone. I'm Pansexual and I go by he/him/she/her. I thought I was Bi for about a year but I have come out as Pansexual for 3 years now. I'm proud even when people bully me saying "You like Pans?" "You f**k Pans?" But I try to not listen to them but sometimes it's hard...

The jokes are weird and childish but oh well- as long as you're comfortable with your sexuality that's all that matters <3

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

The jokes are weird and childish but oh well- as long as you're comfortable with your sexuality that's all that matters <3

Thank you so much

 

[anmybeloved]

Thank you so much

you're welcome love <3 just remember: pan people are cool as fvck

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

you're welcome love <3 just remember: pan people are cool as fvck

I mean I guess you're right because pan people like everyone so in a way I guess pan people are more understanding in a way and stuff. Sorry I'm bad at explaining things.