Watching a crowd of midzys chant Mommy at Ryujin giving me the FUCKING CREEPS. The whole mommy thing in general is not okay at all I’m sorry. If someone makes a tiktok for example which is a thirst trap or something, to an extent it’s clear they’re allowing for people to make sexualised comments to a degree. But women (or men) just existing is NOT an invitation to sexualise them. I’m so glad I do not see it as much anymore because it’s really inappropriate. I used to see so many girls just doing anything and people would call them mommy and it’s just fucking creepy. I think it’s fine to think someone is beautiful or hot anything like that, maybe even have private fantisies. But shit like that should stay private. And DEFO do not chant it at them. I saw a lot of midzys defending themselves because Lia started laughing (and Lia speaks English so understood what was happening) and like
1. Lia is their friend? Assuming that’s the case. I think everyone has things their friends can say and joke about them that others can’t. My friend literally called me a milf today. But does that mean any random person at my college can also just call me a milf. NO. So just because Lia can laugh at something or joke about it with her members doesn’t mean everyone else can
2. Okay so maybe the ITZY members don’t care. But what if they did. What if this group of people started chanting mommy at Ryujin while she was trying to speak and not only did she feel frustrated from being inturupted she also she feels degraded and sexualised. Why would you want to take that risk with an idol you respect so much
Also yeah fuck whoever put that line in the song. That does feel harsh but like whoever wrote that at a time where the whole mommy thing was still common they completely set this up. The minute I heard that line I knew people would start calling Ryujin and Yuna Mommy. Oh let’s also not forget that Ryujin is only 21, and Yuna 19. Okay yeah they’re not minors but they’re not that old either?? Yuna didn’t get called it as much but still… weird af
sorry video of it came up on my tiktok fyp this happened ages ago but just seeing it made me feel sick inside
1. Lia is their friend? Assuming that’s the case. I think everyone has things their friends can say and joke about them that others can’t. My friend literally called me a milf today. But does that mean any random person at my college can also just call me a milf. NO. So just because Lia can laugh at something or joke about it with her members doesn’t mean everyone else can
2. Okay so maybe the ITZY members don’t care. But what if they did. What if this group of people started chanting mommy at Ryujin while she was trying to speak and not only did she feel frustrated from being inturupted she also she feels degraded and sexualised. Why would you want to take that risk with an idol you respect so much
Also yeah fuck whoever put that line in the song. That does feel harsh but like whoever wrote that at a time where the whole mommy thing was still common they completely set this up. The minute I heard that line I knew people would start calling Ryujin and Yuna Mommy. Oh let’s also not forget that Ryujin is only 21, and Yuna 19. Okay yeah they’re not minors but they’re not that old either?? Yuna didn’t get called it as much but still… weird af
sorry video of it came up on my tiktok fyp this happened ages ago but just seeing it made me feel sick inside