❥--[Mental Health Support Space]

[mimilicious]

tysm!

OFCC

 

[mimilicious]

I love my friend group, but I can't help but feel overwhelmed by how much drama seems to happen at our gatherings. Like, every time we try to get together, there's always some underlying tension. Whether it's someone feeling left out, disagreements on where to go, or petty arguments breaking out over the smallest issues, it always feels like there's at least one person who ends up upset. It's becoming increasingly frustrating, and I'm starting to wonder if we can ever enjoy our time together without anyone getting upset.

That sounds really exhausting honestly. It's clear dat u love ur friends, which is why this is hitting u hard. Constant tension n little conflicts would wear lit anyone down, it's hard to relax when u r always bracing urself for sm1 getting upset. u aren't wrong for wanting gathering to feel lighter and happier.


If sm1 is upset its ok not to fix it in the moment. letting ppl cool off instead of the whole grp ABSORBING the mood can help alot. And tbh it might be worth naming it gently, like "Ily guys but the drama at hangouts honestly stresses me out" Sometimes saying that can change stuff

 

[chaerycola]

i feel like i have nobody to talk to
all of my friends stopped talking to me and the friend that said i could talk to about whatever ended up being a creep that only talked to me because i was a single girl i really miss my friends
nobody asks me how im doing anymore
my mom doesn’t even care that i haven’t been eating
my dad just tells me to get a new job like i haven’t been trying
my mom even made fun of me for losing weight “your legs look like sticks”
my irl friends either don’t talk to me anymore or they make me uncomfortable. and my pet turtle is blind now because he sun bathed for too long while i was away at work i’m hardly making money anymore because my boss cut my hours and my parents just keep giving me new bills to pay
and if i tell my other dad about how im struggling he’s just gonna say im not depressed and i don’t have anxiety because why would his kids be depressed
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

 

[mimilicious]

i feel like i have nobody to talk to
all of my friends stopped talking to me and the friend that said i could talk to about whatever ended up being a creep that only talked to me because i was a single girl i really miss my friends
nobody asks me how im doing anymore
my mom doesn’t even care that i haven’t been eating
my dad just tells me to get a new job like i haven’t been trying
my mom even made fun of me for losing weight “your legs look like sticks”
my irl friends either don’t talk to me anymore or they make me uncomfortable. and my pet turtle is blind now because he sun bathed for too long while i was away at work i’m hardly making money anymore because my boss cut my hours and my parents just keep giving me new bills to pay
and if i tell my other dad about how im struggling he’s just gonna say im not depressed and i don’t have anxiety because why would his kids be depressed
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

Im really really sorry u r going thru all ts. Anyone would feel overwhelemed n hurt in ur position. U don't deserve to be treated like u don't matter, by friends, family, or any1. U aren't a burden for feeling this way n u r not making things up. what u r dealing w is really heavy. Please don't do anything stupid. Talk with people who actually care bout u. those ppl r a bunch of bitches

 

[chaerycola]

Im really really sorry u r going thru all ts. Anyone would feel overwhelemed n hurt in ur position. U don't deserve to be treated like u don't matter, by friends, family, or any1. U aren't a burden for feeling this way n u r not making things up. what u r dealing w is really heavy. Please don't do anything stupid. Talk with people who actually care bout u. those ppl r a bunch of bitches

thank you queen
i’ll try not to do anything stupid butttt idek who to talk to

 

[mimilicious]

thank you queen
i’ll try not to do anything stupid butttt idek who to talk to

YWWW. U CAN ALWAYS DM ME OR U CAN TALK TO UR GF

 

[ikuy]

it’s freaking getting worse
my mom and dad were yelling for 20 mins straight and then my mom said she was gonna leave us for a month or two bcuz she hated this house and us and we don’t respected her. She said she wants to go back home to her parents.
there’s nothing I can do abt it, cuz why would two full grown adults listen to a 14 year old? my life is getting shittier, and shittier and there’s nothing I can freaking do to stop it.

 

[ikuy]

it’s freaking getting worse
my mom and dad were yelling for 20 mins straight and then my mom said she was gonna leave us for a month or two bcuz she hated this house and us and we don’t respected her. She said she wants to go back home to her parents.
there’s nothing I can do abt it, cuz why would two full grown adults listen to a 14 year old? my life is getting shittier, and shittier and there’s nothing I can freaking do to stop it.

I hate it, I feel like I’m fricking suffocating cuz not even my friend group is stable now. I feel like someone’s punched me in the stomach

 

[mimilicious]

it’s freaking getting worse
my mom and dad were yelling for 20 mins straight and then my mom said she was gonna leave us for a month or two bcuz she hated this house and us and we don’t respected her. She said she wants to go back home to her parents.
there’s nothing I can do abt it, cuz why would two full grown adults listen to a 14 year old? my life is getting shittier, and shittier and there’s nothing I can freaking do to stop it.

omg.. u honestly don't deserve to go thru that... that sounds really painful n overwhelming.. n none of it is ur fault. u don't deserve to be talked like that or feel like ur family is falling apart, u genuinely love ur mom but maybe shes just going thru too much to understand. Ik u prob feel powerless rn. But when bad things happen good things also start to happen. maybe she just needs a break don't even try to thing about worser things and focus on smth else for now. and maybe while ur mom is alone in her room try to go there and talk to her just the 2 of u

 

[ikuy]

omg.. u honestly don't deserve to go thru that... that sounds really painful n overwhelming.. n none of it is ur fault. u don't deserve to be talked like that or feel like ur family is falling apart, u genuinely love ur mom but maybe shes just going thru too much to understand. Ik u prob feel powerless rn. But when bad things happen good things also start to happen. maybe she just needs a break don't even try to thing about worser things and focus on smth else for now. and maybe while ur mom is alone in her room try to go there and talk to her just the 2 of u

tysm

 

[mimilicious]

tysm

ofc that's the least I can do tbh

 

[‧˚꒰୭ ˚. onmyseul ‧˚꒰୭ ˚.]

I thought I was getting better I really did.
it either I'm eating a lot or I'm not eating at all and its like gosh why cant u js eat normally
I'm either starving myself or filling up
I thought I could finally have a healthy good relationship with food but I cant
I had an eating disorder when I was fucking 8 years old because my step father would call me a ***** and a ***** and call me fat while china decided to say nothing and enable it
when I came to my mom's house I thought I could finally be healthy again and I was but I'm not.
I have thoughts in my brain that tell me I'm fat and I shouldn't be happy and I should stop eating to lose weight and I hate thinking because I know its not true but I cant help it.
I've always been this size and at first my mom and I called it baby fat but it just wont go away
I cant wear crop tops or show skin because I'm afraid of what others will say and I don't even like broadcasting my fucking shoulders because I think theyre "man shoulders" just because I don't look like other girls
and im confusing to myself because how are u confident in yourself and feel good and feel pretty sometimes and then other times you just feel super ugly and like a fat chud
FREAK MY FREAKING CHUNGUS LIFE AHHHHH
I love coping with humor sm omg I feel so funny

 

[rei-x8]

I thought I was getting better I really did.
it either I'm eating a lot or I'm not eating at all and its like gosh why cant u js eat normally
I'm either starving myself or filling up
I thought I could finally have a healthy good relationship with food but I cant
I had an eating disorder when I was fucking 8 years old because my step father would call me a ***** and a ***** and call me fat while china decided to say nothing and enable it
when I came to my mom's house I thought I could finally be healthy again and I was but I'm not.
I have thoughts in my brain that tell me I'm fat and I shouldn't be happy and I should stop eating to lose weight and I hate thinking because I know its not true but I cant help it.
I've always been this size and at first my mom and I called it baby fat but it just wont go away
I cant wear crop tops or show skin because I'm afraid of what others will say and I don't even like broadcasting my fucking shoulders because I think theyre "man shoulders" just because I don't look like other girls
and im confusing to myself because how are u confident in yourself and feel good and feel pretty sometimes and then other times you just feel super ugly and like a fat chud
FREAK MY FREAKING CHUNGUS LIFE AHHHHH
I love coping with humor sm omg I feel so funny

lmk if you ever wanna talk ml!

 

[ikuy]

imagine ur words as a piece of paper
then someone comes along and paints, cuts, scrunched and wtv else on ur paper
then presents the piece of paper, which is still ur words, but also not ur words
thats what my mum does to wtv I say

 

[Kenji]

cookies

cookies

cookies

cookies

cookies

 

[Kenji]

I'M SUCH A SINGLE PRINGLE

SUCH A FREAKING CHUD

UGGHH

 

[sarahsblossom⋆˚✿˖°]

I'M SUCH A SINGLE PRINGLE

SUCH A FREAKING CHUD

UGGHH

hi hello it okay hi yes you'll find someone brah

 

[Kenji]

hi hello it okay hi yes you'll find someone brah

ty hwa

man it out

im a G

 

[sarahsblossom⋆˚✿˖°]

ty hwa

man it out

im a G

yes ywyw ur jiji gotta thug it out

 

[ৎ୭𝓐𝓷𝓰𝓮𝓵𝓲𝓬ৎ୭]

Well I have never been on this thread but I have been going through so much stress that it is bad. My mom has not called me for a month and she always says I break my promise when I do not call her but tbh it shouldn't be my responsibility to call her. She even posts things and thinks she is such a good mother even though she got rid of me. I am even starting to not trust her because she always lies to my face and she needs to just earn my trust back. whenever I ask her "Why haven't you called me" her response is the same every time "sorry I was busy" or "It has been stressful taking care of the baby" I always felt like she never had time for me. Even when I tell her "If you actually loved me you would call or even ask how I am doing even if it's a text but you have not" she promised she would but she always breaks her promise and when I tell her those things it is always the waterworks.