❥--[Mental Health Support Space]

[pika_chuu]

I’m so tired of making everyone else happy. When do I get to be happy?

 

[Gwacekpop2]

I’m so tired of making everyone else happy. When do I get to be happy?

Let go of other people who make you feel like it's a chore for you to make them happy, their happiness should be their responsibility or something they should find on their own (ofc with the help of others but not putting it all on someone) and your happiness should be your top priority. Honestly, I think that once you are happy, you can pretty much make others happy and inspire them to find their happiness. Basically what I'm saying is, drop the responsibility of others happiness off your shoulders and focus on your own happiness <3 I'm here if you want to pm me to talk or rant (I apologize if I sound harsh in the slightest bit TT /nm)

 

[pika_chuu]

Let go of other people who make you feel like it's a chore for you to make them happy, their happiness should be their responsibility or something they should find on their own (ofc with the help of others but not putting it all on someone) and your happiness should be your top priority. Honestly, I think that once you are happy, you can pretty much make others happy and inspire them to find their happiness. Basically what I'm saying is, drop the responsibility of others happiness off your shoulders and focus on your own happiness <3 I'm here if you want to pm me to talk or rant (I apologize if I sound harsh in the slightest bit TT /nm)

I’ve been in three bad relationships back to back and the people who I like don’t like me back.

 

[Gwacekpop2]

I’ve been in three bad relationships back to back and the people who I like don’t like me back.

That's sad... love is kinda hard to find these days and it's usually associated with happiness too.. In all honesty, I'm not sure what to say but maybe focus on life itself and it's other aspects rather than love as a whole, it's tough but you know what, I'm cheering for you on your way to finding good real love and happiness ^^

 

[SanaShyShyShy~]

I’m feeling pretty crappy rn. School is stressful and I hate that I have to take a 9th grade class all over again. I’m a junior, and it’s embarrassing. If only I did what I was supposed to my freshman year. Maybe I wouldn’t be in this position rn

 

[sanasideup]

I’m feeling pretty crappy rn. School is stressful and I hate that I have to take a 9th grade class all over again. I’m a junior, and it’s embarrassing. If only I did what I was supposed to my freshman year. Maybe I wouldn’t be in this position rn

If you ever need to talk, my pms are always open! And if you need help w school, I’d love to help.

 

[Zerø_21]

Hearing two or more loud noises simultaneously drives me into sensory overload (a state in which my hearing won't function too well) And nobody believes it happens to me.

 

[sanasideup]

Hearing two or more loud noises simultaneously drives me into sensory overload (a state in which my hearing won't function too well) And nobody believes it happens to me.

i understand the feeling. if more than one person talks at the same time, it makes me wanna cover my ears and cry. and stuff like fireworks, omg - anxiety in colorful form.

 

[Zerø_21]

My dad is never around when I'm studying, he's only ever around when I'm not studying and he keeps saying I don't study. And I don't know how many times I've vented this to people.

It's really frustrating

 

[sanasideup]

My dad is never around when I'm studying, he's only ever around when I'm not studying and he keeps saying I don't study. And I don't know how many times I've vented this to people.

It's really frustrating

i'm sorry. if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open.

 

[najingter]

My dad is never around when I'm studying, he's only ever around when I'm not studying and he keeps saying I don't study. And I don't know how many times I've vented this to people.

It's really frustrating

same for the 'never around when studying' part.

 

[JJ+J1117]

People, this COVID-19 thing is so not funny. My bf and his family got it and it makes me stress out wondering if I got it. Now he's all alone bc he's family is somewhere else and I'm worried about him. Oh and OMG! this new year is caught onto a bad start. My uncle was shot and I have to got to his funeral knowing that he was a good guy and got his life together on the last minute for his daughter.

 

[sanasideup]

People, this COVID-19 thing is so not funny. My bf and his family got it and it makes me stress out wondering if I got it. Now he's all alone bc he's family is somewhere else and I'm worried about him. Oh and OMG! this new year is caught onto a bad start. My uncle was shot and I have to got to his funeral knowing that he was a good guy and got his life together on the last minute for his daughter.

i'm really sorry. if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open.

 

[Zerø_21]

Spoiler: Just a thing

I don't feel (emotionally) secure around my house

For a good reason too…

Everyone's like "Why don't you express your emotions more" and when I do, they're just "that is inappropriate"

If I'm annoyed they're "Stop being a jerk"

If I'm upset "Stop being a crybaby"

If I'm euphoric "Stop being weird"

There's just no room to be emotional around here…

And I've talked to the school counselor about this…

Spoiler: And more

One thing about having emotional dysregulation is that I'm not good with emotions. It's easy for me to push them away and pretend they don't exist. Every little thing I feel, feels a lot bigger than they're supposed to be. Like when I'm annoyed, upset, happy, angry. There are also times when I just can't figure out how I'm feeling. But I know if that feelings positive or negative

 

[sanasideup]

Spoiler: Just a thing

I don't feel (emotionally) secure around my house

For a good reason too…

Everyone's like "Why don't you express your emotions more" and when I do, they're just "that is inappropriate"

If I'm annoyed they're "Stop being a jerk"

If I'm upset "Stop being a crybaby"

If I'm euphoric "Stop being weird"

There's just no room to be emotional around here…

And I've talked to the school counselor about this…

Spoiler: And more

One thing about having emotional dysregulation is that I'm not good with emotions. It's easy for me to push them away and pretend they don't exist. Every little thing I feel, feels a lot bigger than they're supposed to be. Like when I'm annoyed, upset, happy, angry. There are also times when I just can't figure out how I'm feeling. But I know if that feelings positive or negative

i've struggled w - and still do - the same thing, so i can feel some of your pain. if you ever need to talk, my dms are always open.

 

[ec.li.ps.e.138]

Spoiler: mentions of covid

was in isolation for 5 days because covid and now im struggling with the worst mood swings ive ever had. coincidence? i think not. i didnt react well to quarantine last year. im just gonna pushing through it and eating food and taking care of myself because i know thats what i need but fuCK man this hurts. it also hurts everyone around me bc my girlfriend is sensitive and i am not mad at her, shes just the victim when i snap. i hate this. cant wait for this to stop.

 

[Dreamer_13]

Spoiler: Mentions of beating and selling

It's not the beatings that my parents give me that get me to hate them more than I already do, it's when they decide to tell us that if we don't stop fighting they're gonna sell us. I really don't know how to react to this at all. I'm also worried that they might actually do it.

 

[najingter]

Spoiler: Mentions of beating and selling

It's not the beatings that my parents give me that get me to hate them more than I already do, it's when they decide to tell us that if we don't stop fighting they're gonna sell us. I really don't know how to react to this at all. I'm also worried that they might actually do it.

oh, my gosh. i am so sorry. if you ever need to talk, my pms are open. ur definitely NOT a item to sell.

 

[sanasideup]

Spoiler: mentions of covid

was in isolation for 5 days because covid and now im struggling with the worst mood swings ive ever had. coincidence? i think not. i didnt react well to quarantine last year. im just gonna pushing through it and eating food and taking care of myself because i know thats what i need but fuCK man this hurts. it also hurts everyone around me bc my girlfriend is sensitive and i am not mad at her, shes just the victim when i snap. i hate this. cant wait for this to stop.

i'm sorry. if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open.

 

[sanasideup]

Spoiler: Mentions of beating and selling

It's not the beatings that my parents give me that get me to hate them more than I already do, it's when they decide to tell us that if we don't stop fighting they're gonna sell us. I really don't know how to react to this at all. I'm also worried that they might actually do it.

if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open. i've been abused, which includes being beaten, and while my parents never threatened to sell me, they did threaten to "send me away" to foster or some other "terrible place," so i understand. it sucks, but like i said, if you need to talk, my pms are always open.