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[sanasideup]

like i don't even wanna do anything i quite literally want to do nothing but there's no need to be so rude

i'm sorry. if you need to talk, my pms are always open!

 

[Dreamer_13]

Spoiler: Self-harm, Cussing, body shaming

I have some shitty-ass parents. My parents took up my phone and decided to go through mine and my significant other's texts and I had told him that I self-harm and we ended up calling till about 12 in the morning. My parents call me into their room to talk about what we were talking about and of course, I didn't tell them so they decided to go through my texts and found out. They accused me of lying and said that I was using that as an excuse to get out of trouble because I only showed them my first scar that had already healed. What they don't know is that I get body-shamed at school. I did it again this morning and a few weeks ago. And they wonder so much why we don't tell them anything because they accuse us of lying. Some fucking parents they are.

 

[Dreamer_13]

Spoiler: Self-harm, Cussing, body shaming

I have some shitty-ass parents. My parents took up my phone and decided to go through mine and my significant other's texts and I had told him that I self-harm and we ended up calling till about 12 in the morning. My parents call me into their room to talk about what we were talking about and of course, I didn't tell them so they decided to go through my texts and found out. They accused me of lying and said that I was using that as an excuse to get out of trouble because I only showed them my first scar that had already healed. What they don't know is that I get body-shamed at school. I did it again this morning and a few weeks ago. And they wonder so much why we don't tell them anything because they accuse us of lying. Some fucking parents they are.

On top of that My parents said That I'm a crybaby for getting body-shamed.

 

[saaylhy]

guys...
my parents said that we will move to paris in july bc of my dad's job. but i don't wanna go. now i realized how much my friends and my crush matter to me... i can't see them without imaginating how sad they will be when they'll know
my parents said to me "don 't tell anyone" but i don't want them to know, at the last time, that it's the last schoolyear i pass with them
i'm just... idk. i don't want to leave. it's the 3rd time we move bc of this

 

[sanasideup]

guys...
my parents said that we will move to paris in july bc of my dad's job. but i don't wanna go. now i realized how much my friends and my crush matter to me... i can't see them without imaginating how sad they will be when they'll know
my parents said to me "don 't tell anyone" but i don't want them to know, at the last time, that it's the last schoolyear i pass with them
i'm just... idk. i don't want to leave. it's the 3rd time we move bc of this

i'm sorry. if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open!

 

[saaylhy]

okay.
tw weird/ sexual harassment ig?/ sexual terms

Spoiler: .

that a--hole who is flirting w me really started to talk abt my a$$
a few days ago he was starting to send me jessi's post and talking about her b00bs
he started to post close friends stories (and i'm the only one among his close friends stories) VERY VERY SUS AND WEIRD
now look at what he said:
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"but you're prettier" he said
"you and your short jeans" he said
"ikr" i said
"i'm not gonna judge" he said
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"too bad, it put your a$$ in value" he said
"i- ok" i said
"yes-" he said
after that he said "i'm so embarrasing"
i answered that sarcastic "ok"
and he said "that answer remind me bad memories" (he was talking about that sarcastic friend who made drama with him)
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he said "also this is unbelievable, i'm sleeping without my shirt" "i was too hot"
and i was like BRO WHAT THE HECK???
so i said:
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"listen ik that it reminds you ash (that friend) but from the moment our discussions start to turn like that I have no other answers"
"i mean... it was funny but now it ain't"
and he changed the subject. talking about wonho.
the worst part about it is that he's in my school.
really i'm so disappointed on him. he was a good friend. he was "innocent". after all these convos, i feel like cheating on my crush LOLL
but really, i don't wannabe his friend anymore. or i want him to change. to stop being that pervert guy who likes girls with big a$$es and b00bs. anyways, i'll stop talking with him. that was way too weird.

edit: i sent him a whole message about it, i told all my feelings about it. lets see what he'll answer.
edit 2: he said "Ah, Okay. I think i will stop now. Sorry"
i said "thank you"

this is not because he said sorry that i'm going to be his friend like before. i repeat it, i'm very disappointed.

Spoiler: tw: i dunno

so uh i? the same guy messaged my friend about a oldddddddddddd story which happened, idk, before the xmas break? my friend smacked him (kindly, i was here and it was just a joke)
so he came saying sexist things like, girls can't defend them etc etc, and he started to say to her "if you smack me again, i'm gonna do it too" "thank you, now i have a good reason to do it on back to school day"
PLS WTH???? she was just joking bro chill out
when i think that they were dating on the beggining of the year.. and i thought that he never stopped to love her even if they broke up
sorry this is a bit messy but i'm so confused
well he changed a lot

 

[JJ+J1117]

Hey guys, we havent talked in a while on here. I been getting better with my mental health and thank yall for being there. But sometimes i feel like it is getting worst, not better. Everyday, i go to school and everyone is looking at me. They talk about me. They call me a Wh0r3. Do i need to defend myself? what do i do about this rumors?

 

[saaylhy]

Hey guys, we havent talked in a while on here. I been getting better with my mental health and thank yall for being there. But sometimes i feel like it is getting worst, not better. Everyday, i go to school and everyone is looking at me. They talk about me. They call me a Wh0r3. Do i need to defend myself? what do i do about this rumors?

oh don't worry, in my school there's rumors about me saying that i'm crushing on a guy who is already dating someone. all of this bc i said in my insta story that i have a crush. but i'm into another guy
i think you should ignore these rumors, just like i did
this is not the best tip i can give you but eh, it's ok :')

 

[JJ+J1117]

Sometimes i just feel like im not getting better

 

[sanasideup]

Spoiler: tw: i dunno

so uh i? the same guy messaged my friend about a oldddddddddddd story which happened, idk, before the xmas break? my friend smacked him (kindly, i was here and it was just a joke)
so he came saying sexist things like, girls can't defend them etc etc, and he started to say to her "if you smack me again, i'm gonna do it too" "thank you, now i have a good reason to do it on back to school day"
PLS WTH???? she was just joking bro chill out
when i think that they were dating on the beggining of the year.. and i thought that he never stopped to love her even if they broke up
sorry this is a bit messy but i'm so confused
well he changed a lot

i'm not much help on this topic, but if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open. this dude sounds like he needs serious help, tho

 

[sanasideup]

Hey guys, we havent talked in a while on here. I been getting better with my mental health and thank yall for being there. But sometimes i feel like it is getting worst, not better. Everyday, i go to school and everyone is looking at me. They talk about me. They call me a Wh0r3. Do i need to defend myself? what do i do about this rumors?

i've dealt w ppl talking abt me, and i'm really sorry you're going through that. if you ever need to talk, my pms are always open

 

[Zerø_21]

You're not a burden for wanting to have fun, everyone wants to have it every now and then.

Even though things might not go your way sometimes, keep your head up, it'll get better

today was supposed to be a special day but my siblings are ruining it for me. making me feel like i'm burden for wanting to have some fun

 

[yawnzzn]

You're not a burden for wanting to have fun, everyone wants to have it every now and then.

Even though things might not go your way sometimes, keep your head up, it'll get better

It was my birthday and they repeatedly told me no one cared about me or my birthday until I cried. And it was my 6th month anniversary with my gf on the same day which made it even more shitty that they did that. It's fine now they apologized and we made up but it's hurtful that they did that

 

[chaerifyyy]

It was my birthday and they repeatedly told me no one cared about me or my birthday until I cried. And it was my 6th month anniversary with my gf on the same day which made it even more shitty that they did that. It's fine now they apologized and we made up but it's hurtful that they did that

That is such a a horrible thing to do esp on someones birthday I am so sorry you had to go through that.
I hope ur ok now and Happy late Birthday

 

[saaylhy]

seriously its my second day of school and my mental health went ⬇ ⬇ ⬇ ⬇ ⬇
i have 5 or 6 weeks of school more to go before spring break. kill meh
WAIT NO 7 WEEKS
jsjsjsjsjsjsjsjsjsjsj

 

[saaylhy]

also i'm so stressed bc tomorrow we will say to our main teacher if we will be here next year or not (last year of middle school in france)
rn nobody knows that i'm leaving and if feel like if someone asks me tomorrow if i stay i will cry
bc my parents wants me not to say that i leave. buti don't want to lie to my friends.... so its putting to many pressure on me
sorry for bad english tho i can't think abt the grammar rn
so i dunno what to do. should i tell my friends about it? i don't want to hurt them

in 4-5th grade i had to be going through the SAME THING but i didn't tell my friends
and now i really don't know what to do bc unlike in 4/5th grade, i know how my friends will feel about the fact that i'm leaving and i can't imagine myself doing that to them
i'm...confused
i really hate to move like that
plus there's a biiiiiig exam in the 9th grade and it's a very important year and 8th grade is linked to it
it's like.... a graduation? ig? i don't know how to describe it in english but it's very important for my future

i also hate that my parents are telling me to revise, to work more, to do exercises, etc, that if i don't do them i'll fail the 9th grade exam, i hate that they don't consider how i feel hurt rn. and they don't see the efforts that i put in my work. that is worse.
i could write books about my life lol

 

[chaerifyyy]

also i'm so stressed bc tomorrow we will say to our main teacher if we will be here next year or not (last year of middle school in france)
rn nobody knows that i'm leaving and if feel like if someone asks me tomorrow if i stay i will cry
bc my parents wants me not to say that i leave. buti don't want to lie to my friends.... so its putting to many pressure on me
sorry for bad english tho i can't think abt the grammar rn
so i dunno what to do. should i tell my friends about it? i don't want to hurt them

in 4-5th grade i had to be going through the SAME THING but i didn't tell my friends
and now i really don't know what to do bc unlike in 4/5th grade, i know how my friends will feel about the fact that i'm leaving and i can't imagine myself doing that to them
i'm...confused
i really hate to move like that
plus there's a biiiiiig exam in the 9th grade and it's a very important year and 8th grade is linked to it
it's like.... a graduation? ig? i don't know how to describe it in english but it's very important for my future

i also hate that my parents are telling me to revise, to work more, to do exercises, etc, that if i don't do them i'll fail the 9th grade exam, i hate that they don't consider how i feel hurt rn. and they don't see the efforts that i put in my work. that is worse.
i could write books about my life lol

Do you have a diary or smth like that because writing help with coping with things like this I'm not very good with advice so maybe you can write in a diary or a piece of paper what you would say to your friends before you leave. You don't t have to show them what you wrote. I'm sorry your going through that I hope it gets better for you.

 

[sanasideup]

also i'm so stressed bc tomorrow we will say to our main teacher if we will be here next year or not (last year of middle school in france)
rn nobody knows that i'm leaving and if feel like if someone asks me tomorrow if i stay i will cry
bc my parents wants me not to say that i leave. buti don't want to lie to my friends.... so its putting to many pressure on me
sorry for bad english tho i can't think abt the grammar rn
so i dunno what to do. should i tell my friends about it? i don't want to hurt them

in 4-5th grade i had to be going through the SAME THING but i didn't tell my friends
and now i really don't know what to do bc unlike in 4/5th grade, i know how my friends will feel about the fact that i'm leaving and i can't imagine myself doing that to them
i'm...confused
i really hate to move like that
plus there's a biiiiiig exam in the 9th grade and it's a very important year and 8th grade is linked to it
it's like.... a graduation? ig? i don't know how to describe it in english but it's very important for my future

i also hate that my parents are telling me to revise, to work more, to do exercises, etc, that if i don't do them i'll fail the 9th grade exam, i hate that they don't consider how i feel hurt rn. and they don't see the efforts that i put in my work. that is worse.
i could write books about my life lol

maybe you could talk to your friends privately, then tell the main teacher no like your parents said? and if you ever wanna talk, my pms are always open, and i'm sorry you're going through this. and your english was fine, dw!

 

[Zerø_21]

Spoiler

I feel so useless compared to everyone, most of the time I'm just overlooked and everytime i Do something awesome they're just, yeah nice job, that doesn't help, I honestly want to get better at doing things but no one even bothers helping me or taking me seriously

 

[chaerifyyy]

Spoiler

I feel so useless compared to everyone, most of the time I'm just overlooked and everytime i Do something awesome they're just, yeah nice job, that doesn't help, I honestly want to get better at doing things but no one even bothers helping me or taking me seriously

i know how that feels I feel useless around my family members and some of my friends sometimes i'm just invisible to them like a background character and my parents usually compare me to my friends or other kids.