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[GowonMINT(locked out of other)]

what type of assignments? i like schoolwork maybe i can help you

I'll PM you

 

[anmybeloved]

Spoiler: Over-binding, Pain, Panic Attack, Trauma Stress, Dead Name

So a friend said that I couldn't be trans if I didn't have a flat chest so I've been wearing my binder for 25 hours, it hurts, I've had panic attacks a couple of times because the pain brought back trauma. I just feel so stressed and pressured to wear it to feel valid. I've been told: "You're not Silas if you don't have the binder on, you're just Emma" haha there's my deadname. I just dont know what to do, i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to feel invalidated, and i cant take it off at home because my mom will find out and take it an just i have no one to ask for help. Can anyone help me?

 

[K-fan_2003]

Spoiler: Over-binding, Pain, Panic Attack, Trauma Stress, Dead Name

So a friend said that I couldn't be trans if I didn't have a flat chest so I've been wearing my binder for 25 hours, it hurts, I've had panic attacks a couple of times because the pain brought back trauma. I just feel so stressed and pressured to wear it to feel valid. I've been told: "You're not Silas if you don't have the binder on, you're just Emma" haha there's my deadname. I just dont know what to do, i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to feel invalidated, and i cant take it off at home because my mom will find out and take it an just i have no one to ask for help. Can anyone help me?

Dont wear the binder as long, take it off when you sleep. You are who you are even without the binder you are Silas

 

[fishstiks__]

Spoiler: Over-binding, Pain, Panic Attack, Trauma Stress, Dead Name

So a friend said that I couldn't be trans if I didn't have a flat chest so I've been wearing my binder for 25 hours, it hurts, I've had panic attacks a couple of times because the pain brought back trauma. I just feel so stressed and pressured to wear it to feel valid. I've been told: "You're not Silas if you don't have the binder on, you're just Emma" haha there's my deadname. I just dont know what to do, i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to feel invalidated, and i cant take it off at home because my mom will find out and take it an just i have no one to ask for help. Can anyone help me?

um bissh what?? if the person who said that to you is cis we bout to have some real problems here
4-6 hours on and 2-4 hours off during the day and take it off when you're sleeping
i totally understand the need to feel valid but i promise you; you are valid whether you are binding or not

 

[GowonMINT(locked out of other)]

Spoiler: ...💜

I have to write this fast. I tried to kms and my mom found out. I'm going home tomorrow. I tried to hang my self... But it didn't work fast enough. But I'm not going to get better, my sadness is taking over. And I won't last much longer. But thank you all for.being there for me!

 

[taesshlong]

Spoiler: Over-binding, Pain, Panic Attack, Trauma Stress, Dead Name

So a friend said that I couldn't be trans if I didn't have a flat chest so I've been wearing my binder for 25 hours, it hurts, I've had panic attacks a couple of times because the pain brought back trauma. I just feel so stressed and pressured to wear it to feel valid. I've been told: "You're not Silas if you don't have the binder on, you're just Emma" haha there's my deadname. I just dont know what to do, i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to feel invalidated, and i cant take it off at home because my mom will find out and take it an just i have no one to ask for help. Can anyone help me?

hey babe, a fellow trans male here. fuck that friend, they're not a friend. you don't have to be flat chested to be a male. you can be whoever you want whenever you want. if you wear a binder too long, it can cause serious damage, like snapping a rib. please be safe and careful. you're always gonna be silas, no matter what. i swear.

 

[lynch.]

Spoiler: Over-binding, Pain, Panic Attack, Trauma Stress, Dead Name

So a friend said that I couldn't be trans if I didn't have a flat chest so I've been wearing my binder for 25 hours, it hurts, I've had panic attacks a couple of times because the pain brought back trauma. I just feel so stressed and pressured to wear it to feel valid. I've been told: "You're not Silas if you don't have the binder on, you're just Emma" haha there's my deadname. I just dont know what to do, i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to feel invalidated, and i cant take it off at home because my mom will find out and take it an just i have no one to ask for help. Can anyone help me?

screw that person, you will always be Silas no matter if you have a binder on or not. please don't wear a binder for too long, as it could cause serious damage. i'm always here if you need to talk : ) <3

 

[knnovation]

I was going to rant but no one cares so I changed my mind but just know, if this kills me, just know I tried to get better but I couldn’t and I am sorry.

 

[LostInTheDream]

I was going to rant but no one cares so I changed my mind but just know, if this kills me, just know I tried to get better but I couldn’t and I am sorry.

PLEASE PLEASE STAY SAFE
Sometimes we can't get better on our own! If you need to go to a hospital then you should. It's okay to ask for help! Hell I did it 9 times.

 

[saaylhy]

I was going to rant but no one cares so I changed my mind but just know, if this kills me, just know I tried to get better but I couldn’t and I am sorry.

Don't... You know that a lot of people loves you here. Please don't.

 

[anmybeloved]

I was going to rant but no one cares so I changed my mind but just know, if this kills me, just know I tried to get better but I couldn’t and I am sorry.

Hey, Hey, cmon, you know we all care, we all care about you and you don't have to be sorry but please please stay safe please talk to us if you feel unsafe please don't do anything to yourself

 

[Solarium]

Spoiler

There and two users on here that I really dislike. I really dislike talking to them, but I dont wish to be rude and tell them that. Its really affecting me because I feel so fake pretending to like them. I cant even truly talk to anyone on here without feeling bitchy.

 

[anmybeloved]

Spoiler

There and two users on here that I really dislike. I really dislike talking to them, but I dont wish to be rude and tell them that. Its really affecting me because I feel so fake pretending to like them. I cant even truly talk to anyone on here without feeling bitchy.

you have a right to not talk to people, it's your human rights.

 

[Solarium]

you have a right to not talk to people, it's your human rights.

I keep telling myself that, but they are both well liked here, so others would think Im rude for ignoring them

 

[red riot114]

Okay

u r

 

[red riot114]

Spoiler

Spoiler: ...

I'm 77lbs. I should have never ate the dinner, lunch and breakfast.I was76.09lbs yesterday. I'm trying to stay thin, because that's what people "prefer". But I guess me being pretty has expired. I mean I was never very pretty more like average.

Spoiler: ......

I feel like people are always judging me. And that their labeling me as the "lied". I think you think im stupid. But I can deal with that, I just think that I am self conscious. Because I am. But I can take insults, I have been insulted my whole life.

Spoiler: Those were decals.

I want to die. My mom called me a slxt for wearing a dress that was above my knees, and it was for a picture and I didn't have it on for thAt long. Then she told my dad and he hit me . I dont know why everyone hates me. I did noting but be kind to everyone I have met. And I get insulted, belittled, and taken down. I am judged for my looks, music choice, and personality. I'm done. My mom wonders why I'm so sad, why I'm always in my room. Kill me please. I'm sorry if I did anything wrong to you. I'm trying to be as nice as I can. I'm not going to try anymore I'll just let go.

im going to hurt ur dad

 

[anmybeloved]

I keep telling myself that, but they are both well liked here, so others would think Im rude for ignoring them

other people don't matter right now, if you don't get along/like them then you don't have to talk to them

 

[Solarium]

other people don't matter right now, if you don't get along/like them then you don't have to talk to them

I dont want them to get offended because both of them are rather toxic

 

[red riot114]

Spoiler: Over-binding, Pain, Panic Attack, Trauma Stress, Dead Name

So a friend said that I couldn't be trans if I didn't have a flat chest so I've been wearing my binder for 25 hours, it hurts, I've had panic attacks a couple of times because the pain brought back trauma. I just feel so stressed and pressured to wear it to feel valid. I've been told: "You're not Silas if you don't have the binder on, you're just Emma" haha there's my deadname. I just dont know what to do, i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to feel invalidated, and i cant take it off at home because my mom will find out and take it an just i have no one to ask for help. Can anyone help me?

i can agree with that on so many levels. but im sure u will find the right ppl who will support u and yeah dont wear the binder for too long ok?

 

[anmybeloved]

I dont want them to get offended because both of them are rather toxic

dang that's even more reason to not talk to them