Not everything is about BTS *a rant*

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Disclaimer: this is my own personal opinion, I’m not trying to offend anyone or bash BTS, they’re not the problem, the problem is the fandom.

So my best friend and I have a TikTok and we make videos about K-Pop groups we love. Well she posted one today about “Top 5 kpop groups we stan.” And listed the groups we love:

B1A4
Highlight
Infinite
Monsta X
Astro

well, as per usual, BTS stans started commenting saying things like:

“where’s BTS???”
“Why aren’t BTS on there??”
“BTS should be number 1”

and it really pissed my friend off, so she deleted all the BTS comments but not before saying:

“This is our own personal list. We don’t stan BTS and that’s okay. Not everyone has to like the same groups.”

And she’s right. She even said in the caption thing that if we had a top 20 kpop group, BTS would probably be on there because we do like their old music but we don’t stan.

This is where Army is the problem. They make other people hate their faves by being like this.

I used to stan BTS but never again. Do I still listen to them? Yeah, sometimes. Do I hate them? Not at all. I hate their fandom and I always will hate their fandom because y’all don’t know how to act.​
 

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i don't like most of their fandom too, some of them are just plain rude.
even got shamed for being an exo fan in an amino that i own -- which is
very weird to say the least. i know lots of sweet army's too! that isn't the
thing, but the people that expect that the world revolves around them is ..
no, that's not how it works. i'm not ashamed for saying that, but there
are crazy people out there who do weird things simply because you don't
like bts, especially as an exo-l like me. it's a scary world in kpop, really.

(don't worry, even because i don't stan bts, doesn't mean i don't love
all you army's out there. i love everyone unless you're mean to others <3)
 

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i don't like most of their fandom too, some of them are just plain rude.
even got shamed for being an exo fan in an amino that i own -- which is
very weird to say the least. i know lots of sweet army's too! that isn't the
thing, but the people that expect that the world revolves around them is ..
no, that's not how it works. i'm not ashamed for saying that, but there
are crazy people out there who do weird things simply because you don't
like bts, especially as an exo-l like me. it's a scary world in kpop, really.

(don't worry, even because i don't stan bts, doesn't mean i don't love
all you army's out there. i love everyone unless you're mean to others <3)
Oh yes sis. I got a lot of hate when I stanned BTS and then when I stopped, I stanned EXO for a short period of time and still go hate for it.

I’ve also met some nice army’s but we don’t talk anymore :(
 

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Oh yes sis. I got a lot of hate when I stanned BTS and then when I stopped, I stanned EXO for a short period of time and still go hate for it.

I’ve also met some nice army’s but we don’t talk anymore :(
i'm sure there's lots of nice army's on here! if there were any
mean ones we would've seen it happen already, so thats good!
 
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I'm a fan of BTS, they're still one of my ult groups but I agree that not everything is about them. Some people out there believe that kpop is BTS or Blackpink due to their popularity. And that's just wrong. Very wrong.
 

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Disclaimer: this is my own personal opinion, I’m not trying to offend anyone or bash BTS, they’re not the problem, the problem is the fandom.

So my best friend and I have a TikTok and we make videos about K-Pop groups we love. Well she posted one today about “Top 5 kpop groups we stan.” And listed the groups we love:

B1A4
Highlight
Infinite
Monsta X
Astro

well, as per usual, BTS stans started commenting saying things like:

“where’s BTS???”
“Why aren’t BTS on there??”
“BTS should be number 1”

and it really pissed my friend off, so she deleted all the BTS comments but not before saying:

“This is our own personal list. We don’t stan BTS and that’s okay. Not everyone has to like the same groups.”

And she’s right. She even said in the caption thing that if we had a top 20 kpop group, BTS would probably be on there because we do like their old music but we don’t stan.

This is where Army is the problem. They make other people hate their faves by being like this.

I used to stan BTS but never again. Do I still listen to them? Yeah, sometimes. Do I hate them? Not at all. I hate their fandom and I always will hate their fandom because y’all don’t know how to act.​

GO OFF SIS SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

I dropped the fandom the moment Army's were going around being disrespectful without other fandoms. Army's are the reason why kpop fandoms have a bad reputation. They should be respectful and without causing fanwars. They should look up to Carats and Monbebes, bc you never see them causing these issues or acting up.
BTS paved the way? Oh please. 1st and 2nd generation kpop paved the way for all these groups. They worked and promoted hard for years, so all these groups could be here today.
To all the people saying all these groups are the "next BTS", stop it. NCT IS NCT. STRAY KIDS IS STRAY KIDS. MONSTA X IS MONSTA X. BLACKPINK IS BLACKPINK. THEY ARE NOT BTS.
 

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GO OFF SIS SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

I dropped the fandom the moment Army's were going around being disrespectful without other fandoms. Army's are the reason why kpop fandoms have a bad reputation. They should be respectful and without causing fanwars. They should look up to Carats and Monbebes, bc you never see them causing these issues or acting up.
BTS paved the way? Oh please. 1st and 2nd generation kpop paved the way for all these groups. They worked and promoted hard for years, so all these groups could be here today.
To all the people saying all these groups are the "next BTS", stop it. NCT IS NCT. STRAY KIDS IS STRAY KIDS. MONSTA X IS MONSTA X. BLACKPINK IS BLACKPINK. THEY ARE NOT BTS.
YES SIS GO OFF.
 

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Ok, I get that everything isn't about BTS, but stop being rude about ARMY's!! Some of them might not be the nicest, but that's not all of us. If you don't like BTS, then you don't like BTS!! But, let's face it, BTS is popular, and will be for a long time, even after they disband. Stop hating on BTS. It's not their fault more people like them then a lot of other groups. I try to be nice, I really do, but nothing I do ever stops people from being complete ASSHOLES.
 

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Ok, I get that everything isn't about BTS, but stop being rude about ARMY's!! Some of them might not be the nicest, but that's not all of us. If you don't like BTS, then you don't like BTS!! But, let's face it, BTS is popular, and will be for a long time, even after they disband. Stop hating on BTS. It's not their fault more people like them then a lot of other groups. I try to be nice, I really do, but nothing I do ever stops people from being complete ASSHOLES.
I’m not hating on BTS, though lmao. I happen to like their older music but can’t stand the fandom. Yes, some of them are nice, but a majority are rude and that just puts me off the whole fandom in general.
 

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I’m not hating on BTS, though lmao. I happen to like their older music but can’t stand the fandom. Yes, some of them are nice, but a majority are rude and that just puts me off the whole fandom in general.

It just bothers me that people think everyone's the same. I hate stereotypical dicks.
 

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I agree, whenever I say I stan Kpop everyone is always like 'oh so you like BTS then' and it's so tired to hear that assumption over and over again, when in reality I don't even like BTS that much (Not meaning to offend anyone, just not my taste of music especially the more recent stuff) and I just wish people understood that there is indeed more to Kpop then BTS, and Army do give us a bad name sometimes (not all armies but some are pretty bad) meaning that most people can't even talk about Kpop because they're too scared to get attacked about and it's just not fair on other Kpop fans who enjoy other groups other than BTS because they've relatively not done anything wrong (of course they've also done things wrong, i'm not saying nobody from other fans have not done something wrong, do not take it the wrong way.) And the fact I have to explain myself here to stop myself from getting attacked I also find quite ridiculous, why can't other people just understand that everyone has a different taste, everyone has a different view and they should not get attacked for that.
 

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I agree, whenever I say I stan Kpop everyone is always like 'oh so you like BTS then' and it's so tired to hear that assumption over and over again, when in reality I don't even like BTS that much (Not meaning to offend anyone, just not my taste of music especially the more recent stuff) and I just wish people understood that there is indeed more to Kpop then BTS, and Army do give us a bad name sometimes (not all armies but some are pretty bad) meaning that most people can't even talk about Kpop because they're too scared to get attacked about and it's just not fair on other Kpop fans who enjoy other groups other than BTS because they've relatively not done anything wrong (of course they've also done things wrong, i'm not saying nobody from other fans have not done something wrong, do not take it the wrong way.) And the fact I have to explain myself here to stop myself from getting attacked I also find quite ridiculous, why can't other people just understand that everyone has a different taste, everyone has a different view and they should not get attacked for that.
I agree. Any time I say I like kpop to literally anyone, they assume I only like BTS and that’s not true. I like some of their older music, that’s about it. And yes, I agree again about Army making kpop fans look bad, not all of them, but some of them. I’ve met really nice army’s before, but only about 5-6 and I’ve met way more mean army’s who have sent me death threats and told me to kill myself and that I was going to be harmed by other army’s just for stating my opinion, so yeah, I have something against their fandom and I deserve the right to after the way I was treated.
 

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I agree. Any time I say I like kpop to literally anyone, they assume I only like BTS and that’s not true. I like some of their older music, that’s about it. And yes, I agree again about Army making kpop fans look bad, not all of them, but some of them. I’ve met really nice army’s before, but only about 5-6 and I’ve met way more mean army’s who have sent me death threats and told me to kill myself and that I was going to be harmed by other army’s just for stating my opinion, so yeah, I have something against their fandom and I deserve the right to after the way I was treated.

I'm not trying to treat you any type of way, don't take it personally, I just really don't like people who assume that everyone is the same...
 
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