❥--[Mental Health Support Space]

[Acubeaiii]

Hi everyone! I just got out of school (it took a while to post on here because I had an after school club). As a 5'0'' 13 year old, I get bullied for my height a lot. People are always talking about my height in a way. If It's not my height, It's the way I dress. The fact that I don't have any clothes that fit the style that I'm into doesn't help either. I'm also constantly nagged for my pimples & it honestly kind of hurts. Along with all of this, my friend had been in an impatient facility and was back in school after a while. I haven't seen her for a while & she hasn't been answering my texts so I'm really worried. Do you guys have any tips or encouraging words? Also tysm for always being there for me guys. I really appreciate it

 

[yunaing]

Hi everyone! I just got out of school (it took a while to post on here because I had an after school club). As a 5'0'' 13 year old, I get bullied for my height a lot. People are always talking about my height in a way. If It's not my height, It's the way I dress. The fact that I don't have any clothes that fit the style that I'm into doesn't help either. I'm also constantly nagged for my pimples & it honestly kind of hurts. Along with all of this, my friend had been in an impatient facility and was back in school after a while. I haven't seen her for a while & she hasn't been answering my texts so I'm really worried. Do you guys have any tips or encouraging words? Also tysm for always being there for me guys. I really appreciate it

People your age can be particularly mean because everyone is growing up and changing so quickly, hormones are rapid and everyone isn’t thinking straight. While some people deal with these insecurities internally and privately, others will see people who are viewed as “easy targets” (by this I mean someone who has an obvious thing they can point out, like appearance) or better than them and will find ways to diminish them so they feel better about themselves. It’s horrible, because even just being told they’re saying these things because they’re insecure isn’t going to make you feel less insecure. But just know these aren’t factors in your control, and hopefully one day these will become parts of you that you’ll love.
As for your friend, it seems they’re going through a hard time. Just show your support and show you’re there and that’s the best you can do

 

[chaerifyyy]

its awful you feel that way i'm starting to feel like sometimes towards my own mother and it makes feel so alone.

I feel like my mum doesn't like me. She's never been absolutely horrible to me. But I just get the vibes from her that she isn't keen on me.
She never really wants to spend time with me. She says I'm the one who doesn't want to spend time with her, but I find that she's the one who never wants to continue activities we start together, like watching shows. She doesn't like it when we cook in the kitchen together (it is really small) so we never eat our dinner together. She doesn't care about any of my interests. If you asked her who my favourite group is, she wouldn't be able to tell you. She wouldn't be able to tell you the names of any of my favourite songs. The only reason she'd recognise any of them is because I sing them a lot. She finds my singing annoying though. She finds my interests annoying hence why I don't tell her about them anymore. When I talk to her she often looks annoyed and like she wants me to shut up. She also never misses an opportunity to insult me. Such as today, when I asked her if we didn't have any lettuce coz it wasn't in its ordinary spot. She first told me it's "on another shelf" which is a fine statement yeah? That's telling me where it is, before continuing with "can't you just look with your eyes for once" aka implying I'm stupid. Is it wrong for me to feel like I shouldn't be spoken to in that way? Maybe I didn't look hard enough but it wasn't where it usually was so I feel like it wasn't my fault I didn't look somewhere else. I always flinch when I hear her walking around outside my room because I always get scared she'll come bursting into my room because I've done something else wrong in her eyes. I often feel like an annoyance to the people around me. Not likeable or forgettable. And I feel like perhaps these feelings come from her. Because I've always been a problem to her. I'm just annoying, talk too quickly, don't speak loud enough, cringy, someone to laugh at, someone who they won't invite places. I feel like she's taken away every part of who I actually am. That's why I want to move away so much

 

[Cantarella]

I don't want to sound petty but, what does she do to deserve even 1 dollar? It's not fair to the people who actually work hard, who deserve at least 50, she literally sits on her ass all day!

 

[Acubeaiii]

People your age can be particularly mean because everyone is growing up and changing so quickly, hormones are rapid and everyone isn’t thinking straight. While some people deal with these insecurities internally and privately, others will see people who are viewed as “easy targets” (by this I mean someone who has an obvious thing they can point out, like appearance) or better than them and will find ways to diminish them so they feel better about themselves. It’s horrible, because even just being told they’re saying these things because they’re insecure isn’t going to make you feel less insecure. But just know these aren’t factors in your control, and hopefully one day these will become parts of you that you’ll love.
As for your friend, it seems they’re going through a hard time. Just show your support and show you’re there and that’s the best you can do

Tysm!

 

[tbz]

School is unbearable. I barely pay attention, I'm always practicing handwriting or spacing out. My mood has only gotten worse. I want to push away everyone around me. I don't want to hurt them. I know they have good intentions, that they are truly good people who want to get to know me and befriend me. Not just take advantage like I always think everyone does. How did I become like this? I yearn for the early years of my life. The carefree days of play and math homework with my dad. Now I have bigger worries. My future, my social life. Homeschooling is no longer an option in my mind. I worked too hard to get into the school I am in right now. To get to my current place. It's endlessly exhausting. Even here where I sought asylum can I no longer feel at ease. There is always something to be done. Someone unsatisfied with my work, someone who dislikes me. If my opinion is not agreed with, I panic and start to think that they dislike me.

Everyone else seems to have something to do with their life. What am I doing? Nothing. My extracurriculars remain practically nonexistent. Will I even get anywhere? I'm still unsure of how I came to think like this. I was once the confident one that everyone looked up to. The one people envied. I have it all. A rich family, rich friends, a happy family, whatever i want within reach, skill, and knowledge. Now among all of these smart people I've lost my purpose. My confidence is practically nonexistent. On the outside, ive been told I have the perfect life. I do. The only problem here is me.

I'm sorry if you had to read this. I've been writing in circles for the past few minutes.

 

[dow]

Hi everyone! I just got out of school (it took a while to post on here because I had an after school club). As a 5'0'' 13 year old, I get bullied for my height a lot. People are always talking about my height in a way. If It's not my height, It's the way I dress. The fact that I don't have any clothes that fit the style that I'm into doesn't help either. I'm also constantly nagged for my pimples & it honestly kind of hurts. Along with all of this, my friend had been in an impatient facility and was back in school after a while. I haven't seen her for a while & she hasn't been answering my texts so I'm really worried. Do you guys have any tips or encouraging words? Also tysm for always being there for me guys. I really appreciate it

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Being bullied by people is just so wrong on so many levels. I think you should be able to dress the way you feel comfortable with, and not the way that would meet the bullies’ standards.
Also, pimples is a natural part on our faces that occurs from the start of our adolescence. It’s not okay for people to judge us for something that we can’t control.
At the end of the day, people that bully you are mostly just very insecure about themselves - so they project their insecurities onto you to make themselves feel better bc they can’t accept the fact that they can’t judge or point fingers at something that others can’t control, and that is a really toxic and unhealthy trait for someone like them to have.
Please know that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy and loved.

But I would also like to say, give them time to mature a bit more because being 13-14/15 is the age where people are most likely to become very sensitive and immature at most.

 

[Acubeaiii]

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Being bullied by people is just so wrong on so many levels. I think you should be able to dress the way you feel comfortable with, and not the way that would meet the bullies’ standards.
Also, pimples is a natural part on our faces that occurs from the start of our adolescence. It’s not okay for people to judge us for something that we can’t control.
At the end of the day, people that bully you are mostly just very insecure about themselves - so they project their insecurities onto you to make themselves feel better bc they can’t accept the fact that they can’t judge or point fingers at something that others can’t control, and that is a really toxic and unhealthy trait for someone like them to have.
Please know that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy and loved.

But I would also like to say, give them time to mature a bit more because being 13-14/15 is the age where people are most likely to become very sensitive and immature at most.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Being bullied by people is just so wrong on so many levels. I think you should be able to dress the way you feel comfortable with, and not the way that would meet the bullies’ standards.
Also, pimples is a natural part on our faces that occurs from the start of our adolescence. It’s not okay for people to judge us for something that we can’t control.
At the end of the day, people that bully you are mostly just very insecure about themselves - so they project their insecurities onto you to make themselves feel better bc they can’t accept the fact that they can’t judge or point fingers at something that others can’t control, and that is a really toxic and unhealthy trait for someone like them to have.
Please know that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy and loved.

But I would also like to say, give them time to mature a bit more because being 13-14/15 is the age where people are most likely to become very sensitive and immature at most.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Being bullied by people is just so wrong on so many levels. I think you should be able to dress the way you feel comfortable with, and not the way that would meet the bullies’ standards.
Also, pimples is a natural part on our faces that occurs from the start of our adolescence. It’s not okay for people to judge us for something that we can’t control.
At the end of the day, people that bully you are mostly just very insecure about themselves - so they project their insecurities onto you to make themselves feel better bc they can’t accept the fact that they can’t judge or point fingers at something that others can’t control, and that is a really toxic and unhealthy trait for someone like them to have.
Please know that you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy and loved.

But I would also like to say, give them time to mature a bit more because being 13-14/15 is the age where people are most likely to become very sensitive and immature at most.

Tysm, I'm really happy to hear that you understand!

 

[dow]

Tysm, I'm really happy to hear that you understand!

no worries!

 

[Starman]

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[Starman]

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[Call_MeRover]

tw bullying

bullying sucks ass.

now i know what it feels like. heh, i always told myself when i was younger "youre never gonna get bullied." look at me now. i feel awful. getting constantly made fun of, being laughed at.
all theyre doing is calling me "gay" and "lesbian" even though im not. i tell them im not. i tell them to stop. they dont listen.
im so stupid. why am i crying on the floor, having a whole mental breakdown over something so stupid? its not gonna matter later, yet i feel like its my fault theyre doing this to me.
i wanna tell someone (irl). to let them knwo whats happening. but i cant. if i tell my parents, theyre gonna get mad at me for not telling them sooner and how they have too much to handle rn. if i tell a counselor, theyre gonna tell my parents, and repeat the cycle.
its hopeless. what can i do. i feel so empty. please...help me...

I am in the same situation rn..
if youd like anyone to talk to im here..i like to help
lei

 

[Call_MeRover]

why is everyone around me so perfect except me?
why am I the only one who ends up being invisible to everyone as if I don’t exist?
why am I the only one who ends up embarrassing myself?
why do I feel as if everyone hates me?

Its not your fault! maybe you just see yourself differently. itll be ok

 

[Call_MeRover]

Hi well um..my boyfriend broke up with me..*jazz hands* whoo..
1.I have a midterm tomorrow
2.my mom keepsgoing out so we dont talk
3.people keep calling me *****
4.i have nobody

 

[Starman]

Hi well um..my boyfriend broke up with me..*jazz hands* whoo..
1.I have a midterm tomorrow
2.my mom keepsgoing out so we dont talk
3.people keep calling me *****
4.i have nobody

lovers aint that important
study for tomorrow or take a stress break yk
try to talk your about like her day when you have the cahnce you never know when it helps
people say mean things about but we all know they are worse people
you think you have nobody but tgeres always someone in your life!

 

[Call_MeRover]

lovers aint that important
study for tomorrow or take a stress break yk
try to talk your about like her day when you have the cahnce you never know when it helps
people say mean things about but we all know they are worse people
you think you have nobody but tgeres always someone in your life!

hmm i wonder who the ppl are

 

[Call_MeRover]

lovers aint that important
study for tomorrow or take a stress break yk
try to talk your about like her day when you have the cahnce you never know when it helps
people say mean things about but we all know they are worse people
you think you have nobody but tgeres always someone in your life!

hmm i wonder who the ppl are

 

[Starman]

hmm i wonder who the ppl are

you never know i felt that a few months ago but i talked to my mom talked to my rbotgers to some friends emailed ofc yk

 

[𝓐𝓵𝓮𝓬_𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮!]

so this is really not something i would done but I just need to get it out..i guess...

So my mental health has been very bad and my family/friends don't care...like the other day, I had an attack and no-one cares...and my "mom" beats me...and everyone makes fun of me and it's getting so bad that I don't even want to leave my house....Me and My friend (the only REAL friend irl) Min had a breakdown together and we talked about our problems

 

[Call_MeRover]

so this is really not something i would done but I just need to get it out..i guess...

So my mental health has been very bad and my family/friends don't care...like the other day, I had an attack and no-one cares...and my "mom" beats me...and everyone makes fun of me and it's getting so bad that I don't even want to leave my house....Me and My friend (the only REAL friend irl) Min had a breakdown together and we talked about our problems

1.try and be more open to your family
2.i feel the same but i keep going
3.at least you have someone to share your pain with..I only..OH! zero people.