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My mom screams at me and calls me nasty names for wearing a shirt that's a little too short, I can't even imagine how some parents react when their 12 y/o daughter wears makeup and revealing clothes
My mom whenever I wear a crop top or have cleavage showing. She will deadass go โ€œyouโ€™re just asking for something to happen to you.โ€ And Iโ€™m like โ€œhmm? What?โ€ And sheโ€™ll be like โ€œthe way youโ€™re dressed, youโ€™re just asking for men to take advantage of you.โ€ And I just really hate that she is the way she is ๐Ÿ˜€
 

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It baffles my mind how there are guys out there who will pressure a girl into doing some of the most disgusting things and then not believe the women that speak out against all of the s*xual v!olence that we endure.
Yes... Sadly I think s3xual activities have gotten worse with even younger ages because they are scared of what will happen if they don't do the things the so-called men ask of them.
 

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Right! 12 year olds look 14-18 these days. When I was 12, I wore jeans and tshirts, no makeup(didnโ€™t start that until I was 13 and even then it was just eyeliner and lipgloss)and spent more time playing outside with my friends and brother then anything.
Deadass some girls at my school are wearing tube tops and miniskirts and im over here in my sweatpants and hoodie like "im guud ๐Ÿ˜Œ"
 

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Deadass some girls at my school are wearing tube tops and miniskirts and im over here in my sweatpants and hoodie like "im guud ๐Ÿ˜Œ"
True that
 

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Deadass some girls at my school are wearing tube tops and miniskirts and im over here in my sweatpants and hoodie like "im guud ๐Ÿ˜Œ"
If I went out of my house at 12 dressed the way 12 year olds dress today, my ass would not be here right now. I would be dead, in the ground, buried. ๐Ÿ˜€
 

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Aish... I Just Can't Anymore with The world. I'm Pretty Innocent. So Sometimes Jokes that Aren't Meant For children get's Told and everyone Start's Laughing Then I'm Like huh?. And Then they Say " You wouldn't get it cause Your an Innocent Asian Then Role their Eyes and Mumble Under Their Breath Typical"(That What the girls Say)(And the guys say) Your to pretty To not be innocent.. And then Some not so kid Friendly Stuff". Honestly It makes me really uncomfortable.
That sounds like me- people will say something not child-friendly and Iโ€™ll just be sitting there not really getting it... I naturally censor myself but there isnโ€™t much to censor....
 

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Deadass some girls at my school are wearing tube tops and miniskirts and im over here in my sweatpants and hoodie like "im guud ๐Ÿ˜Œ"
Me in my jeans and hoodie are always vibing-
On occasion Iโ€™ll switch it up and do leggings with my hoodie instead (wow, crazy)
 

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Yes... Sadly I think s3xual activities have gotten worse with even younger ages because they are scared of what will happen if they don't do the things the so-called men ask of them.
I won't go into detail, but I was taken advantage of at 10 years old by a 25+ year old guy over Instagram. He claimed to know a lot about hacking and he would track us down and hurt us if I didnt send what he wanted. It's disgusting how people have these motives.
 

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If I went out of my house at 12 dressed the way 12 year olds dress today, my ass would not be here right now. I would be dead, in the ground, buried. ๐Ÿ˜€
I was 12 last year (and in January) and only wore hoodies and leggings. My closet hasnโ€™t changed and my mother is annoyed because she wants me to wear brighter colors-
 

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I was 12 last year (and in January) and only wore hoodies and leggings. My closet hasnโ€™t changed and my mother is annoyed because she wants me to wear brighter colors-
I love hoodies and leggings ๐Ÿ˜Œ
 

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If I went out of my house at 12 dressed the way 12 year olds dress today, my ass would not be here right now. I would be dead, in the ground, buried. ๐Ÿ˜€
If I dressed in anything too short I would quite literally get crucified :D even if I lost weight and I looked good it doesn't matter because my mom literally said I can't wear anything that shows my stomach until I'm in my twenties; an adult
 

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If I dressed in anything too short I would quite literally get crucified :D even if I lost weight and I looked good it doesn't matter because my mom literally said I can't wear anything that shows my stomach until I'm in my twenties; an adult
Thatโ€™s going to be me with my daughter, I swear. Only because I donโ€™t want her to get sexualized or taken advantage of like I was/did.
 

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Theyโ€™re so comfortable-
Agreed! When I was working & pregnant with my daughter, all I wore was leggings and hoodies/baggy shirts to work all the time lol
 

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Nah man, they just think itโ€™s cool-
My 11-year old little brother catcalled me and humped the car earlier just because he thinks itโ€™s cool and cute and funny
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No...this gives me flashbacks of one of my friends that used to hump stuffed animals at sleepovers when we were 10-11 years old ๐Ÿ˜ญ
 

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Thatโ€™s going to be me with my daughter, I swear. Only because I donโ€™t want her to get sexualized or taken advantage of like I was/did.
I got sexualized wearing my hoodie and leggings because some 6th grade boys thought taking photos of my *butt* and sharing them to each other was a good idea
 

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I won't go into detail, but I was taken advantage of at 10 years old by a 25+ year old guy over Instagram. He claimed to know a lot about hacking and he would track us down and hurt us if I didnt send what he wanted. It's disgusting how people have these motives.
I can relate.. But He would put his hands on me and Everything
 

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I-
No...this gives me flashbacks of one of my friends that used to hump stuffed animals at sleepovers when we were 10-11 years old ๐Ÿ˜ญ
Oh dang-
Holy crap wait- my brother asked my 16-year old older cousin to call him daddy- I- *save me from my life please*
 

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I got sexualized wearing my hoodie and leggings because some 6th grade boys thought taking photos of my *butt* and sharing them to each other was a good idea
I- ugh I wore a skirt and a nice shirt to school one time in 5th grade and that was the first and last time I ever did that because the boys in my class kept trying to look up it whenever the teacher wasnโ€™t around or I was bending over to pick something up ๐Ÿ˜’
 
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