Thoughts on long distant relationships?

[K-fan_2003]

AGREED

I kind of figured as we basically are on the same brain wave

 

[merveilles]

Yea nudes are a no go for me also they would either use me, cheat, or emotionally abuse me soo yea.

Yep! My first LDR was with a girl who pretended to be a guy but we worked it out but then stopped talking and I talked to her last year sometime and felt all these feelings coming back, cause I guess my dumbass was still in love with her, but then she said she had a fiancée and I was like “well, shit ”

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

Yep! My first LDR was with a girl who pretended to be a guy but we worked it out but then stopped talking and I talked to her last year sometime and felt all these feelings coming back, cause I guess my dumbass was still in love with her, but then she said she had a fiancée and I was like “well, shit ”

Damn.. I felt that

 

[merveilles]

Damn.. I felt that

It really do be like that sometimes

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

It really do be like that sometimes

Mhmm. Even though you are older then me if you ever need someone to talk to. Just to rant to I'm willing to listen and/or try to help out.

 

[OatmealKookie]

My questions for you are.. Do you think long distant relationships are worth it? If so why? If not why? I for one thing they are worth a lot because you never now what could happen later on in that relationship. Maybe you guys don't work out. Maybe you do work out. It all depends on how close and how much you love and care for that person.

Oh Well I Met my partner In My Home country Korea. Then He moved with Me To Thailand Along with my Family. Then I moved To Japan And he couldn't go because something with his passport. So We had to Leave Him in Thailand (I was So sad) And It's been A Year Since I've seen Him in Person. I was Going to Take A trip To Thailand To See my Family But Covid happened And I couldn't

 

[merveilles]

Oh Well I Met my partner In My Home country Korea. Then He moved with Me To Thailand Along with my Family. Then I moved To Japan And he couldn't go because something with his passport. So We had to Leave Him in Thailand (I was So sad) And It's been A Year Since I've seen Him in Person. I was Going to Take A trip To Thailand To See my Family But Covid happened And I couldn't

I hope you guys get to see each other again soon!

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

Oh Well I Met my partner In My Home country Korea. Then He moved with Me To Thailand Along with my Family. Then I moved To Japan And he couldn't go because something with his passport. So We had to Leave Him in Thailand (I was So sad) And It's been A Year Since I've seen Him in Person. I was Going to Take A trip To Thailand To See my Family But Covid happened And I couldn't

Awwwww

 

[BiasWreck]

My questions for you are.. Do you think long distant relationships are worth it? If so why? If not why? I for one thing they are worth a lot because you never now what could happen later on in that relationship. Maybe you guys don't work out. Maybe you do work out. It all depends on how close and how much you love and care for that person.

I think it's worth it. If it doesn't work out, there's no awkward running into them at a grocery store ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
If it does work out, the moment you see each other in person again is going to be such a touching moment, there WILL be tears

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

I think it's worth it. If it doesn't work out, there's no awkward running into them at a grocery store ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
If it does work out, the moment you see each other in person again is going to be such a touching moment, there WILL be tears

Beautiful~

 

[OatmealKookie]

I hope you guys get to see each other again soon!

Thank you

 

[Iz*Grass]

Kind of unrelated to the subtopic you guys were just talking about but what I'm wondering is how tf do y'all start "dating" at like <12 ?!!!!

 

[yawnzzn]

most of my relationships have been long distance and while some have ended badly, it was never because we were long distance

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

Kind of unrelated to the subtopic you guys were just talking about but what I'm wondering is how tf do y'all start "dating" at like <12 ?!!!!

Idek

 

[OatmealKookie]

Kind of unrelated to the subtopic you guys were just talking about but what I'm wondering is how tf do y'all start "dating" at like <12 ?!!!!

I Didn't I've Known him ever since I was Little But he moved away to America Right After His Eight Birthday(Were I Live Now) And He was gone for about 8 years. But then His Family Surprised My Family With their Return. And Then a year Later we Started dating. His parents Died In a Car Crash.

 

[OatmealKookie]

But His Parent's Died In a Car Crash When his Little Brother wasn't even A Week Old. And then He Started to live With My Family. But For some reason his Brother call's me 엄마. Because I guess I've Been with his Brother Before He was born. And to Him his brother is His dad Technically(But Not really). So yeah. I technically Have a son Because I look after him. I raised Him I Feed Him I've Done everything along With my boyfriend. At first I was weirded Out But Then I've Gotten Used to it And Embraced it. He's My Whole world. Sorry For Sharing That I just miss my "son" So much..

 

[merveilles]

Kind of unrelated to the subtopic you guys were just talking about but what I'm wondering is how tf do y'all start "dating" at like <12 ?!!!!

They’re usually just silly crushes but then there are some 11-12 year olds who actually date and engage in sexual activity thus resulting in pregnancies and STDs at a young age.

 

[OatmealKookie]

They’re usually just silly crushes but then there are some 11-12 year olds who actually date and engage in sexual activity thus resulting in pregnancies and STDs at a young age.

Exactly When I lived In Korea, China, Japan, Thailand You rarely Shall that (Not trying to be rude at all when I say this it's just my opinion) But when I lived in France and America Manly America I had About 10 girls Who where Pregnant At my School. Then my parents moved me into a Private School. But it's Their Too. Life's Crazy. (I'm in High School BTW)

 

[BiasWreck]

Exactly When I lived In Korea, China, Japan, Thailand You rarely Shall that (Not trying to be rude at all when I say this it's just my opinion) But when I lived in France and America Manly America I had About 10 girls Who where Pregnant At my School. Then my parents moved me into a Private School. But it's Their Too. Life's Crazy. (I'm in High School BTW)

Last year I found out 2 high schoolers in my school did the devil's tango in a music practice room (public to the entire school) and now I'm scared to go to any of them because I don't know which one they did it in....
Also a 6th grader in my guitar class is very open about how he wants to *do not good things* with his gf
A girl in my grade is crushing on my chorus teacher, who is literally almost 3 times her age
I live in America, things are gross

 

[OatmealKookie]

Last year I found out 2 high schoolers in my school did the devil's tango in a music practice room (public to the entire school) and now I'm scared to go to any of them because I don't know which one they did it in....
Also a 6th grader in my guitar class is very open about how he wants to *do not good things* with his gf
A girl in my grade is crushing on my chorus teacher, who is literally almost 3 times her age
I live in America, things are gross

Aish... I Just Can't Anymore with The world. I'm Pretty Innocent. So Sometimes Jokes that Aren't Meant For children get's Told and everyone Start's Laughing Then I'm Like huh?. And Then they Say " You wouldn't get it cause Your an Innocent Asian Then Role their Eyes and Mumble Under Their Breath Typical"(That What the girls Say)(And the guys say) Your to pretty To not be innocent.. And then Some not so kid Friendly Stuff". Honestly It makes me really uncomfortable.