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That's Too Much Work

Stop labelling yourself, that's too much work. If you label everything that makes you "not normal", the list will never end. Why? ALL 8 fucking BILLION people on this Earth are different. Whether you share the same exact DNA as a twin or not, your experience every day is still different. Nobody is exactly the same. We all have similar experiences that we might all face as humanity, but nobody who has ever lived on this planet we call home HAVE or ever will in the future IS GOING TO experience the same things. Thank God we have similar experiences, imagine you had NOTHING in common with anyone. That'd be a total nightmare.

My point is, if you try to label yourself ENTIRELY, it won't work. Don't get me wrong, labelling things helps you better understand yourself, the world, and other people around you. Abso-fucking-lutely! But at some point, you gotta say, "That's too much work"!

Listen, here's what would happen if I tried to list at least SOME of the stuff that makes me unique:
I'm a Pansexual, Genderfluid, Ambidextrous, predominantly inattentive ADHD having, BPD (borderline NOT bipolar having), GAD having, SAD having, Vitiligo having, African-American, Plantar fasciitis having, Pes planus having, MDD having, both a Myopia and Astigmatism comorbid having, oddly allergic to apples type of (yes you read that right, I'm freaking allergic to APPLES of all foods), only allergic to dog salvia (and maybe dander too) and not the whole dog itself, musical savant syndrome having, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah, individual

Phew, glad all that typing is over. Guess what, not only is that just SOME of the stuff that makes me unique, I didn't get into what makes me unique personality-wise, if I did, I'd be here all day.

So, my point is. Yes, labelling yourself to understand yourself better and others is perfectly fine. In fact, I encourage it; more people should be "in tune" with who they are and what they face. BUT, gangaroo... listen up. How do I put it? Uhhh. Listen, at some point, you have to stop and realize that life is way too complex to label yourself. If you wanted to commit to it, the list would be forever changing. As scientific understanding improves over time, some things that you believed you had may be a subset of a whole different disorder, you may stop experiencing those problems, you may gain NEW disorders and syndromes, etc. The list will never be complete. Like I said before, at some point, you gotta say, "That's too much work"!

Life is not that simple, I certainly wish it were. Some of the things wrong with me, I don't even know what they are, and some of them are probably even things that won't be scientifically researched until way past our lifetimes. Be you, don't let any word or phrase describe you. You're way too special for that. Nothing can describe everything about you. Be YOU. Maybe some type of disease or whatever will be named after you. So how should you describe yourself? Say, "I AM ME". Me personally, I am Ren. I am also Kiko. A lot of people know me more as Kiko, actually. Either way, I am Ren, I am Purgatory, I am Kiko, I am Bluneblee, I am whatever you want me to be. I'm way too special to adhere to whatever guidelines of the world exist. You, the one reading this, you're special too. Very special. Remember that. And remember.....

That's too much work....

- whatever you want me to be or know me as
 

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That's Too Much Work

Stop labelling yourself, that's too much work. If you label everything that makes you "not normal", the list will never end. Why? ALL 8 fucking BILLION people on this Earth are different. Whether you share the same exact DNA as a twin or not, your experience every day is still different. Nobody is exactly the same. We all have similar experiences that we might all face as humanity, but nobody who has ever lived on this planet we call home HAVE or ever will in the future IS GOING TO experience the same things. Thank God we have similar experiences, imagine you had NOTHING in common with anyone. That'd be a total nightmare.

My point is, if you try to label yourself ENTIRELY, it won't work. Don't get me wrong, labelling things helps you better understand yourself, the world, and other people around you. Abso-fucking-lutely! But at some point, you gotta say, "That's too much work"!

Listen, here's what would happen if I tried to list at least SOME of the stuff that makes me unique:
I'm a Pansexual, Genderfluid, Ambidextrous, predominantly inattentive ADHD having, BPD (borderline NOT bipolar having), GAD having, SAD having, Vitiligo having, African-American, Plantar fasciitis having, Pes planus having, MDD having, both a Myopia and Astigmatism comorbid having, oddly allergic to apples type of (yes you read that right, I'm freaking allergic to APPLES of all foods), only allergic to dog salvia (and maybe dander too) and not the whole dog itself, musical savant syndrome having, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah, individual

Phew, glad all that typing is over. Guess what, not only is that just SOME of the stuff that makes me unique, I didn't get into what makes me unique personality-wise, if I did, I'd be here all day.

So, my point is. Yes, labelling yourself to understand yourself better and others is perfectly fine. In fact, I encourage it; more people should be "in tune" with who they are and what they face. BUT, gangaroo... listen up. How do I put it? Uhhh. Listen, at some point, you have to stop and realize that life is way too complex to label yourself. If you wanted to commit to it, the list would be forever changing. As scientific understanding improves over time, some things that you believed you had may be a subset of a whole different disorder, you may stop experiencing those problems, you may gain NEW disorders and syndromes, etc. The list will never be complete. Like I said before, at some point, you gotta say, "That's too much work"!

Life is not that simple, I certainly wish it were. Some of the things wrong with me, I don't even know what they are, and some of them are probably even things that won't be scientifically researched until way past our lifetimes. Be you, don't let any word or phrase describe you. You're way too special for that. Nothing can describe everything about you. Be YOU. Maybe some type of disease or whatever will be named after you. So how should you describe yourself? Say, "I AM ME". Me personally, I am Ren. I am also Kiko. A lot of people know me more as Kiko, actually. Either way, I am Ren, I am Purgatory, I am Kiko, I am Bluneblee, I am whatever you want me to be. I'm way too special to adhere to whatever guidelines of the world exist. You, the one reading this, you're special too. Very special. Remember that. And remember.....

That's too much work....

- whatever you want me to be or know me as
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RIGHT like if my bed is dirty for a bit he says “Sarah your a girl why’s your bedroom dirt? You need to start cleaning up” Like ***** what? And then he has the audacity to say when I look pretty that the man who marries me that they’re gonna marry a very beautiful girl even tho I told him multiple times that i’am not getting married

Bro same like I get guilty with I hate them and so I start to love them again and they just break my heart over and over again
Same again, my parent always bring up marriage, even when I’m talking to them abt regular stuff. It annoys the hell out of me. I don’t want to get married bruh.

exactlyyyy
 

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Same again, my parent always bring up marriage, even when I’m talking to them abt regular stuff. It annoys the hell out of me. I don’t want to get married bruh.

exactlyyyy
my dad used to talk bout that w me except he used to say that he will make me marry a guy who will treat me a like a maid
 
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Same again, my parent always bring up marriage, even when I’m talking to them abt regular stuff. It annoys the hell out of me. I don’t want to get married bruh.

exactlyyyy
RIGHT like brow i’am 12 mind you i have way more things to worry about
 
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