nsfw stuff and children on the forums.

[yawnzzn]

true, but even then it still makes me concerned that ppl wld say smth like that to sum1 in a childish mindset- i myself am a regressor so ik what regression is :0

I was just putting that for people that don't know. I'm not a regressor but I have a lot of friends who are and they way ppl sexualize it is so weird it makes me sick

 

[yunaisms]

I was just putting that for people that don't know. I'm not a regressor but I have a lot of friends who are and they way ppl sexualize it is so weird it makes me sick

ohhh!! and yeah i agree, i had an ex who sexualized my regression, it was weird

 

[Yeonjun'sDriedScalp <3]

ok but hear me out, I may not know the whole part but I would like to add that, Why would a 7-year-old have access to the internet? like hello??? where are you're parents?? you're in like first grade. and what do you expect this is the fucking internet? you should've not joined in the first place.

 

[yawnzzn]

ohhh!! and yeah i agree, i had an ex who sexualized my regression, it was weird

eww that's so weird, i'm glad they're an ex now that kind of behavior is never okay. i like your venti layout btw

 

[merveilles]

ok but hear me out, I may not know the whole part but I would like to add that, Why would a 7-year-old have access to the internet? like hello??? where are you're parents?? you're in like first grade. and what do you expect this is the fucking internet? you should've not joined in the first place.

Good morning Leslie lol

 

[Yeonjun'sDriedScalp <3]

Good morning Leslie lol

Good Morning Ryann lmfao my message sounded aggressive but it's speaking the truth.

 

[merveilles]

Good Morning Ryann lmfao my message sounded aggressive but it's speaking the truth.

Chill. I don’t want you to get banned lol

 

[Lysaa]

ok but hear me out, I may not know the whole part but I would like to add that, Why would a 7-year-old have access to the internet? like hello??? where are you're parents?? you're in like first grade. and what do you expect this is the fucking internet? you should've not joined in the first place.

Plus there’s creepy men and women on the interwebs, she‘s 10 years younger than me too

 

[yunaisms]

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eww that's so weird, i'm glad they're an ex now that kind of behavior is never okay. i like your venti layout btw

thank u c:

 

[yunaisms]

ok but hear me out, I may not know the whole part but I would like to add that, Why would a 7-year-old have access to the internet? like hello??? where are you're parents?? you're in like first grade. and what do you expect this is the fucking internet? you should've not joined in the first place.

EXACTLY

 

[yunaing]

Mixed feelings.
Defo don’t go out of your way to be a pain and expose children to nsfw things coz that’s just cruel. But at the same time, if you’re a child on the internet, that’s a gamble your parents/you allowed you to make :/

 

[merveilles]

Interesting

 

[yunaisms]

Mixed feelings.
Defo don’t go out of your way to be a pain and expose children to nsfw things coz that’s just cruel. But at the same time, if you’re a child on the internet, that’s a gamble your parents/you allowed you to make :/

yeah true, but at the same time if it's a child, how did the parents even allow their kid to have so much internet access yk?

 

[anmybeloved]

I personally wouldn't even let her on here /lh
There are people above 18 (nothing against them of course!!)
And to have a literal 7 y/o is like for me to put my 6 y/o niece on a computer and let her sign up here where people talk about gore, trauma, nsfw topics, etc. etc.
I wouldn't do it. If the child can come here, answer the verification question and sign up for an account the child can do much more.
No one is really in the wrong it's just a safety thing

 

[ec.li.ps.e]

Okay, what if we instituted an age requirement on the forums? No offense to anyone here, but the Internet is a harmful place and as someone who had access to certain websites since I was ten years olds I can safely say it's BAD for someone so young to be here. This place should be at minimum 13+ along with most other websites for a case of Internet safety. If the parents don't care enough to monitor their kids, then someone should.

And of course people are going to lie, but it's usually easy to tell when someone is younger than they are saying they are. Kpop is by nature not a super child friendly community, especially with how many songs are about sex regardless of how hidden they supposedly are. While it's impossible to fully control children, it's up to people older than them to at least help.

And to the eleven and younger people on here? YOU SHOULDN'T BE. You should not be on the Internet, especially when you're so young. While this website is far safer than, say, Twitter, since its a smaller, more focused community, it still isn't healthy for you to develop this type of Internet addiction so early on. What happens now has an impact on you for years to come and you have to take care of yourself. With how ubiquitous the Internet is in our modern culture and the unfortunate existence of tablet babies, I get that it's difficult, but yo have to make an effort. So much stuff on here is bad for you, and while it's gotten better over the years, it's nowhere near close to where it should be. Even kids websites are screwed up. Please, don't worry about the Internet for a while. It'll still be here, and when you've developed a bit more, and you're better able to process the things you see, you can always come back. I don't care how mature you are, you're going to hurt yourself. I hurt myself by using the Internet at age eleven and my experience was relatively tame compared to a lot of other people that I know. It's not good to subject yourself to this kind of environment.

And if you're lying about your age to make yourself seem younger than you actually are, that's weird and creepy and you should talk to a therapist! Unless you're age regressing, which is a valid coping mechanism, of course. But if you sign up for a website and go around claiming to be fricking eight year olds for attention, you need help. That's weird. That's so fricking weird.

 

[yunaisms]

Okay, what if we instituted an age requirement on the forums? No offense to anyone here, but the Internet is a harmful place and as someone who had access to certain websites since I was ten years olds I can safely say it's BAD for someone so young to be here. This place should be at minimum 13+ along with most other websites for a case of Internet safety. If the parents don't care enough to monitor their kids, then someone should.

And of course people are going to lie, but it's usually easy to tell when someone is younger than they are saying they are. Kpop is by nature not a super child friendly community, especially with how many songs are about sex regardless of how hidden they supposedly are. While it's impossible to fully control children, it's up to people older than them to at least help.

And to the eleven and younger people on here? YOU SHOULDN'T BE. You should not be on the Internet, especially when you're so young. While this website is far safer than, say, Twitter, since its a smaller, more focused community, it still isn't healthy for you to develop this type of Internet addiction so early on. What happens now has an impact on you for years to come and you have to take care of yourself. With how ubiquitous the Internet is in our modern culture and the unfortunate existence of tablet babies, I get that it's difficult, but yo have to make an effort. So much stuff on here is bad for you, and while it's gotten better over the years, it's nowhere near close to where it should be. Even kids websites are screwed up. Please, don't worry about the Internet for a while. It'll still be here, and when you've developed a bit more, and you're better able to process the things you see, you can always come back. I don't care how mature you are, you're going to hurt yourself. I hurt myself by using the Internet at age eleven and my experience was relatively tame compared to a lot of other people that I know. It's not good to subject yourself to this kind of environment.

And if you're lying about your age to make yourself seem younger than you actually are, that's weird and creepy and you should talk to a therapist! Unless you're age regressing, which is a valid coping mechanism, of course. But if you sign up for a website and go around claiming to be fricking eight year olds for attention, you need help. That's weird. That's so fricking weird.

i was saying the exact same thing!! most apps have an age requirement of 13 or older BECAUSE of topics that are discussed on said apps, and the forums truly should be the same :// and if it is someone pretending that's messed up. and yeah, ppl 12 and younger rlly shouldn't be here, as someone who was exposed to the internet at 10 yrs old, it rlly does more harm than good

 

[merveilles]

Okay, what if we instituted an age requirement on the forums? No offense to anyone here, but the Internet is a harmful place and as someone who had access to certain websites since I was ten years olds I can safely say it's BAD for someone so young to be here. This place should be at minimum 13+ along with most other websites for a case of Internet safety. If the parents don't care enough to monitor their kids, then someone should.

And of course people are going to lie, but it's usually easy to tell when someone is younger than they are saying they are. Kpop is by nature not a super child friendly community, especially with how many songs are about sex regardless of how hidden they supposedly are. While it's impossible to fully control children, it's up to people older than them to at least help.

And to the eleven and younger people on here? YOU SHOULDN'T BE. You should not be on the Internet, especially when you're so young. While this website is far safer than, say, Twitter, since its a smaller, more focused community, it still isn't healthy for you to develop this type of Internet addiction so early on. What happens now has an impact on you for years to come and you have to take care of yourself. With how ubiquitous the Internet is in our modern culture and the unfortunate existence of tablet babies, I get that it's difficult, but yo have to make an effort. So much stuff on here is bad for you, and while it's gotten better over the years, it's nowhere near close to where it should be. Even kids websites are screwed up. Please, don't worry about the Internet for a while. It'll still be here, and when you've developed a bit more, and you're better able to process the things you see, you can always come back. I don't care how mature you are, you're going to hurt yourself. I hurt myself by using the Internet at age eleven and my experience was relatively tame compared to a lot of other people that I know. It's not good to subject yourself to this kind of environment.

And if you're lying about your age to make yourself seem younger than you actually are, that's weird and creepy and you should talk to a therapist! Unless you're age regressing, which is a valid coping mechanism, of course. But if you sign up for a website and go around claiming to be fricking eight year olds for attention, you need help. That's weird. That's so fricking weird.

I’m pretty sure it’s someone else’s alt account & they’re pretending to be 7 for whatever reason, to cause drama, to get attention, who knows, but I agree with what you said, regardless

 

[anmybeloved]

adding onto what someone else said, i feel like it wouldn't be a bad Idea to add kind of a discord inspired feature where you have to have lets say the "trans" tag to talk in a "trans people rants" section

like how on discord if you don't have the "18+" age tag then you can't see nsfw areas

 

[yunaisms]

adding onto what someone else said, i feel like it wouldn't be a bad Idea to add kind of a discord inspired feature where you have to have lets say the "trans" tag to talk in a "trans people rants" section

like how on discord if you don't have the "18+" age tag then you can't see nsfw areas

ooh yeah that'd be a good idea

 

[ec.li.ps.e]

I’m pretty sure it’s someone else’s alt account & they’re pretending to be 7 for whatever reason, to cause drama, to get attention, who knows, but I agree with what you said, regardless

that's even weirder wtf ;; have they been banned yet? bc i know im not a mod but that kind of thing would be an instant ban if i were ;;