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StarlightSilverCrown2 said:
I couldn't find a better thread so please don't take this the wrong way or misunderstand that this thread is a great space. I am just really frustrated right now and I wasn't sure where else to post this.

For those who don't know, there's been issues in the DREAMERS fandom for years now, ever since we found out what a di ck Scott (Rem) actually is, and how he treated everyone pretty terribly, coming out with a terrible apology only after Dabin (DPR Live) cussed him out at a live show, and now more and more things are coming out, dividing a decent part of the fandom. Its exhausting and part of the reason I left and supporting quietly.

Don't get me wrong, I love the idea of protecting your idols and as someone who really loves and cherishes Ian I get, I really do, but people are trying to take it into their own hands. Swearing and tweeting at Rem (which was someone they supported whole heartly like the rest of us btw), like it was a personal issue and it affects them. NO it doesn't it affects the team at DPR, the managers, the people who got treated unfairly and didn't get paid, things stolen stuff like that. Show support where you can but people are targeting others and harassing others for supporting Dabin (who did nothing wrong, and is just purusing his own career away from DPR), while people are making statements, 'I am here for Christian (Ian) only, if that upsets you block and unfollow me', and its just to much.

I'm not sure if anyone else sees it the same way I do, but people feel entitled, 'they have the best music taste because they know dpr', or 'i followed dpr before fuck rem started' and its so stu pid. Okay? so? I followed Ian when he had three songs released and had the second round of copies for the MITO album.
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sigh I'm sorry, this is why I stepped away from social media in the first place, and now its targeting DREAMERS, a place that felt so safe for so long, where people supported each other and their mental health struggles (as IAN is known to suffer it brought us together in a way), always showing support.

It just doesn't feel that way anymore and its frustrating. I don't disagree with what he's done and yeah it sucks, but people are taking and talking about in the wrong way. It is NOT our issue to deal with, let people support Dabin. Yes there will be idiots who support Scott (Rem) but they don't deserve some of the hate they are getting, everyone is blinded by love sometimes.

For a fandom that praises its self on inclusivity and caring for one another it does not seem that way anymore.
 
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what is wrong with ppl who fucking act like ppl that act ur friend but are really fucking snakes. like no bitchh stop acting like ur my friend when ur talking shit behind my damn fucking back. like why the fuck are u talking shit abt me when u talk shit abt that person to me. like yeah i don't say shit but like still. it's so fucking annoying and i'm making EXCUSES? me like gurl wtf are u on abt? ur making assumptions abt me and u keep acting like ur all that but u don't have the damn fucking shit to actually be a true friend. ur hiding shit away frm others and ur stealing ideas. u vanish outta no where and show again and ur js a straight up hypocritical idiot. ur untruthful, hypocritical, lying, and quite literally a fucking snake.
 
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I hate feeling forgotten. You still remember what a random person said to you, but you forgot the story I told you about my trauma LESS THAN A WEEK AGO! But it's fine, you'd rather complain about something than listen to me about my pain. But why does it matter? It's not like you even SEE me. You forget about me for DAYS and then randomly appear. I'm like a ghost, and I'm so fucking tired of it.
 
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I feel like I’m a terrible gf to him.. idek if he even loves me anymore..
 
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beomette ౨ৎ said:
I feel like I’m a terrible gf to him.. idek if he even loves me anymore..
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If he doesn't love you, then that's his fault. You're a wonderful person, trust me, I know. If you feel like a terrible gf because of him, then he's not the one for you. If he makes you feel like you're not good enough, then he's the one who needs to change.
 
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Pretending to act happy is very hard.. especially in front of my cousin.
 
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tw - sh

i cried non stop for a whole hour yesterday and my sibs haven't figured it out yet and my mum was at work. i'm so done with acting like i'm ok but i can't stop either. it feels weird now that my role as peacekeeper for my parents isn't needed anymore considering the fact that my dad moved out last october. so now my hands feel empty. i'm still getting around the fact that my parents are officially separated and my mum's applied for divorce. yeah i still sort out the issues between my mum and sister but still. i want to go to my mum and tell her everything but ion want to add on pressure to her. she's got so much on her platter already ion think it's fair. i feel like i have so much on my shoulders and i don't know how to handle all the pressure. school, friends, my siblings. when i feel like everything's gonna be ok smth always go wrong and everything goes haywire again. my emotions get all over the place and i lose my shit again. i keep getting random panic attacks and my hands start trembling outta no where. my chest gets all tight and i find it hard to breath. half the time it's when i'm going ok and i'm happy for once. i feel like i'm oversensitive and like i'm going to relapse any moment. my self control is only getting worse and i'm not genuinely doing that well. no one irl has been able to notice yet but i want them too but at the same time i don't. i want to be able to be vulnerable in front of ppl but it feels wrong to be vulnerable. i feel like i've acted like i'm strong and fine in front of ppl for so long, now i js can't act like i'm not fine. it feels weird asking for help when i'm so used to helping, and being the leaning shoulder for ppl. sometimes my insecurities play up and make it harder for me. and my mu keeps picking on my insecurities, like ik she doesn't mean to but she keeps doing it. and i think knowing that i'm not going to be anyone's first choice and everything's js going to be me having feelings and shit for ppl that's not going to be returned. i get that not everythings abt me but sometimes i js want someone to understand and js see me. not the i'm fine version. the real me. like idek why i'm wishing for smth that's not going to happen but at the same time i'm hoping. no whole point but still i keep doing it.
 
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ζ͜͡𝕲𝖍𝖔𝖘𝖙 said:
tw - sh

i cried non stop for a whole hour yesterday and my sibs haven't figured it out yet and my mum was at work. i'm so done with acting like i'm ok but i can't stop either. it feels weird now that my role as peacekeeper for my parents isn't needed anymore considering the fact that my dad moved out last october. so now my hands feel empty. i'm still getting around the fact that my parents are officially separated and my mum's applied for divorce. yeah i still sort out the issues between my mum and sister but still. i want to go to my mum and tell her everything but ion want to add on pressure to her. she's got so much on her platter already ion think it's fair. i feel like i have so much on my shoulders and i don't know how to handle all the pressure. school, friends, my siblings. when i feel like everything's gonna be ok smth always go wrong and everything goes haywire again. my emotions get all over the place and i lose my shit again. i keep getting random panic attacks and my hands start trembling outta no where. my chest gets all tight and i find it hard to breath. half the time it's when i'm going ok and i'm happy for once. i feel like i'm oversensitive and like i'm going to relapse any moment. my self control is only getting worse and i'm not genuinely doing that well. no one irl has been able to notice yet but i want them too but at the same time i don't. i want to be able to be vulnerable in front of ppl but it feels wrong to be vulnerable. i feel like i've acted like i'm strong and fine in front of ppl for so long, now i js can't act like i'm not fine. it feels weird asking for help when i'm so used to helping, and being the leaning shoulder for ppl. sometimes my insecurities play up and make it harder for me. and my mu keeps picking on my insecurities, like ik she doesn't mean to but she keeps doing it. and i think knowing that i'm not going to be anyone's first choice and everything's js going to be me having feelings and shit for ppl that's not going to be returned. i get that not everythings abt me but sometimes i js want someone to understand and js see me. not the i'm fine version. the real me. like idek why i'm wishing for smth that's not going to happen but at the same time i'm hoping. no whole point but still i keep doing it.
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Stay strong, twin... I will ALWAYS be here for you <3
 
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