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I hate how theydon't respect my boundaries at all and they say I am taking it too far
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i normally don't talk about stuff like this, but I really need some help.
Okay so I normally don't do this but this has been a recurring issue in my friend group for MONTHS. So, my friend group consists of "K" "M" and Sariah (my best friend.) (Names not shown for a reason-) And basically whats been going on is that- well first off me and "k" don't really talk like that. We have things in common, but we never clicked. "m" and Sariah are friends with her however, and can talk to her perfectly fine. I talk to "m" alot, but she doesn't really talk to me unless we're away from "K". And sariahs just Sariah she talks to me mostly since I'm her BSF DUH. But yeah basically this has happened before where "K" and "M" don't talk to me AT ALL. Even with me being RIGHT THERE. I struggle to start conversations or interject while being around "K" since we don't really get along, but they don't even make a effort to include me in their conversations- (which would be WAY more helpful since I don't really know how to communicate in situations like that-) They basically just all migrate towards "k" more than me which makes me feel a bit isolated- I'm not saying I want all the attention on me, I just want to be included. I wouldn't mind talking to k- but she just isnt my type of person. And it sucks that most of the time my friends migrate towards her. Like in the mornings, me and "K" are there before "M" and Sariah. Most of the time, When they both walk in they go straight towards "K" even though I've been friends with them longer. And that makes me feel a bit upset as well. It may be jealousy, but I just hate the feeling of being disregarded, especially because that happens alot in my home. Also with that there's another friend of mind named "L" who also hasn't been talking to me or even the others. Shes too focused on dumb highschool boys.
but yeah I just don't know what to do. I feel like the friend group is kinda breaking because people are losing interest. Maybe their not my friends after all. (btw we've all discussed this before when it first started) NOW me and "M" talked about it and we both apologized. We decided that we were just going to cut "K" off, especially because "K" has been assaulting "M". NOW After the weekend, they made up. Before this however, "M" said that "K" said it was all of my fault that everyone's having issues in the friend group. LIKE WHAT? you JUST became friends with us THIS GRADE. I knew "M" and Sariah since KINDERGARTEN. Now that set me off. I never had ill will towards "K" until this. So its crazy shes blaming ME for EVERYTHING even though they've started drama with us SO many times. And now, I talked to "M" earlier today about how its kinda crazy how they're all buddy buddy with "k" now even though they still blame everything on me and is trying to start something. She said shed talk to "K" about it, but I'm still pissed. I just feel like I'm always going to be the last option.
Okay so I normally don't do this but this has been a recurring issue in my friend group for MONTHS. So, my friend group consists of "K" "M" and Sariah (my best friend.) (Names not shown for a reason-) And basically whats been going on is that- well first off me and "k" don't really talk like that. We have things in common, but we never clicked. "m" and Sariah are friends with her however, and can talk to her perfectly fine. I talk to "m" alot, but she doesn't really talk to me unless we're away from "K". And sariahs just Sariah she talks to me mostly since I'm her BSF DUH. But yeah basically this has happened before where "K" and "M" don't talk to me AT ALL. Even with me being RIGHT THERE. I struggle to start conversations or interject while being around "K" since we don't really get along, but they don't even make a effort to include me in their conversations- (which would be WAY more helpful since I don't really know how to communicate in situations like that-) They basically just all migrate towards "k" more than me which makes me feel a bit isolated- I'm not saying I want all the attention on me, I just want to be included. I wouldn't mind talking to k- but she just isnt my type of person. And it sucks that most of the time my friends migrate towards her. Like in the mornings, me and "K" are there before "M" and Sariah. Most of the time, When they both walk in they go straight towards "K" even though I've been friends with them longer. And that makes me feel a bit upset as well. It may be jealousy, but I just hate the feeling of being disregarded, especially because that happens alot in my home. Also with that there's another friend of mind named "L" who also hasn't been talking to me or even the others. Shes too focused on dumb highschool boys.
but yeah I just don't know what to do. I feel like the friend group is kinda breaking because people are losing interest. Maybe their not my friends after all. (btw we've all discussed this before when it first started) NOW me and "M" talked about it and we both apologized. We decided that we were just going to cut "K" off, especially because "K" has been assaulting "M". NOW After the weekend, they made up. Before this however, "M" said that "K" said it was all of my fault that everyone's having issues in the friend group. LIKE WHAT? you JUST became friends with us THIS GRADE. I knew "M" and Sariah since KINDERGARTEN. Now that set me off. I never had ill will towards "K" until this. So its crazy shes blaming ME for EVERYTHING even though they've started drama with us SO many times. And now, I talked to "M" earlier today about how its kinda crazy how they're all buddy buddy with "k" now even though they still blame everything on me and is trying to start something. She said shed talk to "K" about it, but I'm still pissed. I just feel like I'm always going to be the last option.
TW!! im actually not okay. im pretending i am bc ion wan anyone to worry. but its wtv ig. i- im sorry. 
im sorry i js cant do this anymore. i am drained, exhausted, stressed. i woke up at like 12-1 in the morning with thoughts that couldn't let me sleep. i went over to my moms room to tell her because the thoughts were consuming me. i was having thoughts of doing sh(none suicidal thoughts thankfully.) im clean for 3 months. why...
im sorry i js cant do this anymore. i am drained, exhausted, stressed. i woke up at like 12-1 in the morning with thoughts that couldn't let me sleep. i went over to my moms room to tell her because the thoughts were consuming me. i was having thoughts of doing sh(none suicidal thoughts thankfully.) im clean for 3 months. why...
It’s okay! If you need anyone to talk to I’m here. Just to let you know that everyone may have lows in their lives so you’ll get through it babe <3TW!! im actually not okay. im pretending i am bc ion wan anyone to worry. but its wtv ig. i- im sorry.
thank you sm <3 i will