I mean you did say ‘BRUTALLY HONEST’ so I’m gonna be brutally honest.
Honestly, I have a more negative impression of you than a positive one. I get kinda terrified of you everytime I see you, and I also get weirded out by some of things you’ve said on this website as well. I’m sorry but I also think you’re pretty much unfunny.
Now, you probably don’t wanna hear or read this part I guess, but I think this needs to be said because the fact you’ve been engaging in this type of stuff on here - especially online dating, as well as you posting stuff complaining about not finding love/someone rejecting you and stuff like that… (so simply just love/relationship related stuff) is not it, and I’m sure that’s what’s left a sour taste in many of our mouths (in other words, many of us here to have a bad impression on you) to begin with.
Respectfully, what you’re doing (again, online dating and you posting some love/relationship related stuff) isn’t gonna last very long and I can tell you that engaging in that sort of thing on the internet, including here in the forums can also take a toll on your mental health.
I’m sure that one day in the future, you’ll be able to reflect back and realise that what you’ve been doing here wasn’t even worth it.
So with that kind of mindset that you have, is what I think you really need to change and get rid of. I’d rather you focus on other things in life rather than engaging in online dating & posting stuff complaining about not finding love and whatever. I would like to think that you posting these kinds of things as well as engaging in online dating here is the reason why I think many of us here are scared to wanting to interact with you and to have a bad impression on you - because this is a K-Pop Forum, not a social media platform. I’m not saying that you can’t post about non kpop stuff here, but I feel that you just need to stop constantly posting about love/relationship/rejection related stuff on here.
I’m not trying to offend you in some way with everything I said here, but please try to understand and learn from what I’m trying to tell you - as you’ve said again to be ‘BRUTALLY HONEST’.
On a positive note, you do seem quite nice and not rude to anyone pretty much so yeah.