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Basically, what are some cold hard facts that are tough to take in?

1. Having depression or any condition isn't an excuse for any behaviour problems ( Ex. Being rude, petty, etc. ) Unless like, you genuinely have no control over it. Take responsibility for your actions and don't hide behind a wall.

2. People having different opinions than you is OK. Not everyone has to agree on the same thing as you. Just because they think something different than you gives you no right to insult and harass them about it unless they acted upon it. Calling them names won't make you right either, it's just immature.

3. We can't just erase things that we don't like. We have to learn and coexist with it. And tolerate it


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1. just because you have mental issues or problems at home doesnt make it alright to bully someone to depression and ******* attempts.
2. saying your "depressed" or have an "eating disorder" because you feel sad for 3 days and skip a meal is fucked up. people struggle with shit like that everyday (including me) and youre going to borderline mock it with shit like that? no.
3. hating on people for liking kpop is dumb and immature. get a grip on life if you mock somebody for having a kpop pfp. and stan loona.
 

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1. just because you have mental issues or problems at home doesnt make it alright to bully someone to depression and ******* attempts.
2. saying your "depressed" or have an "eating disorder" because you feel sad for 3 days and skip a meal is fucked up. people struggle with shit like that everyday (including me) and youre going to borderline mock it with shit like that? no.
3. hating on people for liking kpop is dumb and immature. get a grip on life if you mock somebody for having a kpop pfp. and stan loona.
The ED one, my best friend does that. She'll get in one of her "i'm so fat" moods and go on and on about how she isn't eating anymore and how she's just going to "get anorexia" and it pisses me off. Especially since she knows my struggles with it & then when I call her out by saying she's being inconsiderate, the b!tch has the nerve to say some dumbass shit like "well, you're too big to be anorexic, so i don't see why you're getting mad." 🙄 this is why i don't have friends 😒
 

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The ED one, my best friend does that. She'll get in one of her "i'm so fat" moods and go on and on about how she isn't eating anymore and how she's just going to "get anorexia" and it pisses me off. Especially since she knows my struggles with it & then when I call her out by saying she's being inconsiderate, the b!tch has the nerve to say some dumbass shit like "well, you're too big to be anorexic, so i don't see why you're getting mad." 🙄 this is why i don't have friends 😒
i would have slapped your friend. i hate it when people do that. they act like an eating disorder is some fun quirky thing, like no. if you want to faint because of starvation, then go ahead, maybe then you will realize how horrible it is. 😒
 

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i would have slapped your friend. i hate it when people do that. they act like an eating disorder is some fun quirky thing, like no. if you want to faint because of starvation, then go ahead, maybe then you will realize how horrible it is. 😒
That's what I told her. Then she did the one thing I hate, after being mean to me, she goes "dude I'm just playing, don't get all upset." While laughing 🙄
 

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It's just hard because she's my only irl friend and we're basically sisters, we have known eaxh other since we were 4 years old.
its not my choice to make, so do what makes you feel best. but if she really bothers you then you should leave her. do what makes you happy and comfortable <3
 
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My scars will always be there.
Having a mental illness isn't fun/quirky, it sucks ass.
One day all my favs will be gone.
My family will die before me.
 

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My scars will always be there.
Having a mental illness isn't fun/quirky, it sucks ass.
One day all my favs will be gone.
My family will die before me.
same 😔
I'm not sure if this will be helpful to you, but I always view my scars as a way to remember that life is worth living and to live it well. They add character to me, and even if they are ugly, they help to show who I am and what I have fought through.
 
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same 😔
I'm not sure if this will be helpful to you, but I always view my scars as a way to remember that life is worth living and to live it well. They add character to me, and even if they are ugly, they help to show who I am and what I have fought through.
Yes thank you, this helps. :)
 
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