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[Call_MeRover]

Any advice?

 

[Yeosang's chicken]

I had to go through a similar tbh just don't assume things and be honest and talk it out with him if I am being honest I live long distance I prefer long distance over being close

 

[Call_MeRover]

I had to go through a similar tbh just don't assume things and be honest and talk it out with him if I am being honest I live long distance I prefer long distance over being close

oh..

 

[Yeosang's chicken]

Yeah I'm a little weird but do you ever meet someone and they make you feel amazing so you become attached in the first few days and then they just like leave you on opened or delivered and then they come back and you feel more attached ??? I need help

 

[Call_MeRover]

Yeah I'm a little weird but do you ever meet someone and they make you feel amazing so you become attached in the first few days and then they just like leave you on opened or delivered and then they come back and you feel more attached ??? I need help

Thats how it is with him..

 

[Sevillia]

realisticly speaking, you shouldn't online date or long distance dating its real bad for mental health :c

 

[Call_MeRover]

realisticly speaking, you shouldn't online date or long distance dating its real bad for mental health :c

Technically its not online date since we've been on real dates and have met each other before.

 

[Sevillia]

Technically its not online date since we've been on real dates and have met each other before.

if so, then you shouldnt distance date, idk, its not good for mental health form what ive heard, so be careful or just simply break up.

 

[Call_MeRover]

if so, then you shouldnt distance date, idk, its not good for mental health form what ive heard, so be careful or just simply break up.

...oh

 

[Yeosang's chicken]

i like long distance it sometimes help my mental health

 

[Call_MeRover]

i like long distance it sometimes help my mental health

oh.

 

[Yeosang's chicken]

you two still together?

 

[Tachibugi]

I'm really not someone to talk on relationship advice, but this really seems like a case of you both needing to just be honest and talk for a moment about how you wish this to go and how you see both of yourselves in the future. Long distance relationships aren't bad for mental health on their own, it really depends on the person and if both are comfortable with it. Some have no problems and for some it becomes unbearable after a while since you don't see the other person really and also don't know what they're up to, which for some can lead into them having trust issues too (even though they trust the other person, but the brain loves to make you doubt).
Then on the other hand some even prefer it because they maybe just find it more comfortable, especially when they just don't have the time to meet with someone at all.
Hell, my parents met literally on the internet and even now after over two decades they are still together, so all that nonsense about those relationships not ever lasting is also stupid.
So yeah, best thing is to really find a bit of time in both of your schedules to just call each other or something and talk about each others worries. I think this is the #1 thing about relationships, being honest and naming a problem you think you might have before it turns into a bigger one, you know?

 

[Call_MeRover]

you two still together?

I dont want to talk bout it

 

[Yeosang's chicken]

okay,also yeah i like long distance cuz otherwise if you two break up you will have to see them every day

 

[Call_MeRover]

okay,also yeah i like long distance cuz otherwise if you two break up you will have to see them every day

That smart but like weird

 

[nina]

I'm dating this really great guy but the thing is i think our relationship might be falling apart. He lives in North Carolin and i live in Massachusetts. He has work most of the time and i can rarely talk to him because i dont know what to say. I love him so much. He believes this relationship could last but how?Long Distance relationships are hard and i feel like i'll never meet him. He calls me his soulmate and "Wifey" But what am i really to him? This is all so confusing

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i‘ll say this in the nicest way possible.
why even complain or be in a relationship with him when you can’t even talk to him?
thats literally the only way u can make it work is by communicating and if u ‘love him’ you would be happy to atleast say hi or how are you or something and one thing i also wanted to say u said you never met him but
said in reply to @Sevilla “Technically its not online date since we've been on real dates and have met each other before.” like honestly please make the story add up and im not trying to be rude but it doesn‘t even seem real tbh.
try to talk to him. communicate. be honest. it’s not simple but if u wanna make it work you will

 

[Call_MeRover]

We already made it work and cleared it up. You didnt have to write all of that.

i‘ll say this in the nicest way possible.
why even complain or be in a relationship with him when you can’t even talk to him?
thats literally the only way u can make it work is by communicating and if u ‘love him’ you would be happy to atleast say hi or how are you or something and one thing i also wanted to say u said you never met him but
said in reply to @Sevilla “Technically its not online date since we've been on real dates and have met each other before.” like honestly please make the story add up and im not trying to be rude but it doesn‘t even seem real tbh.
try to talk to him. communicate. be honest. it’s not simple but if u wanna make it work you will

p

 

[nina]

We already made it work and cleared it up. You didnt have to write all of that.

p

then why make the thread?.

 

[Call_MeRover]

then why make the thread?.

Someone had given me advice yesterday which was when the thread was made.