Stories On Losing Someone

[rikigoth]

i want you all to know that i love you all so much i am very sorry for everyone's loss

 

[rikigoth]

july 1, 2019 i lost my pappy (my dad's mom's dad) because he was in the hospital. about a week ago i lost my other papy (my dad's dad's dad). i wish i wouldve taken the time to get closer to them when i had the chance...

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

july 1, 2019 i lost my pappy (my dad's mom's dad) because he was in the hospital. about a week ago i lost my other papy (my dad's dad's dad). i wish i wouldve taken the time to get closer to them when i had the chance...

I'm so sorry..

 

[pika_chuu]

My cat, Leland, passed away five years ago, on Christmas Eve. It felt cruel.

 

[Gwacekpop2]

Yeah I can vouch for how scary it can be.
With the event that happened in my town I didn't know if my brother was alive or not for a short period of time. It's such a terrifying feeling not to know.
And even when I knew he was safe, I didn't know if so many other people were alive or not. The body count just kept going up and they didn't release the names until a couple of days later.

Mhm, honestly I think my mom has a lot of stress thinking about how safe her parents are over there.

 

[LostInTheDream]

Mhm, honestly I think my mom has a lot of stress thinking about how safe her parents are over there.

yeah it was worse for my mom.
She didn't know if both my brother and I were alive or not.

 

[Hobicore]

I was born and raised in Korea But when I was 12 we moved to China. And I have A older Brother who is 7 years older then me. He was my best-friend he was my everything. I loved him so much he taught me everything. And he turned out as Gay. And his Boyfriend at the time Told everyone after they broke up. He was walking down this alleyway to get home as a shortcut because he stayed out way later then he intended to. And these men jumped him. toke him Hostage. Beat him until over half his bones where broken. And then he was left to die. the police found his body Three days later....

 

[lynch.]

A few years ago (February 2019) I lost my cat. She had cancer. I remember holding her when she was taking her final breaths, telling her that she's going to be okay and that I love her. Every time I see an orange cat I think of her. I hope she's somewhere safe now, in a place where she's not in any more pain and she's free to do whatever she wants.

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

I was born and raised in Korea But when I was 12 we moved to China. And I have A older Brother who is 7 years older then me. He was my best-friend he was my everything. I loved him so much he taught me everything. And he turned out as Gay. And his Boyfriend at the time Told everyone after they broke up. He was walking down this alleyway to get home as a shortcut because he stayed out way later then he intended to. And these men jumped him. toke him Hostage. Beat him until over half his bones where broken. And then he was left to die. the police found his body Three days later....

I'm so sorry...

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

A few years ago (February 2019) I lost my cat. She had cancer. I remember holding her when she was taking her final breaths, telling her that she's going to be okay and that I love her. Every time I see an orange cat I think of her. I hope she's somewhere safe now, in a place where she's not in any more pain and she's free to do whatever she wants.

Aw

 

[LostInTheDream]

I said it on my profile but I wanted to talk about it more cause I need to talk about it.

I'm about to lose my uncle. He is really the only extended family I see on a yearly basis. He's on the autism spectrum so I have never been close in the way I wanted to be, but I love him so much.
A couple of months ago he was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. It was terminal so no surgery could be done. He didn't want to go chemo but he did get radiation. It didn't work and everything kinda came crashing down this weekend.
My uncle lives in Pennsylvania, while I live in Connecticut. So my dad calls him every Sunday to check that he's doing okay. We had tried to have him move up to where we live, but he didn't want to leave. It's the city he was born in and he is a creature of habit due to his autism. If my Dad doesn't call him on Sundays then my uncle will. This Sunday came and my dad called my uncle but he didn't pick up. Now this is really really weird. My dad knew something was up. In addition, my other uncle was not able to contact him either.
So my dad called the police to do a wellness check. Apparently they went to where he lived, said he was okay, and that my uncle said he would call my dad later that day. Well we got no such call.
The next day my other uncle called the local police for a wellness check and they found my uncle on the floor passed out. He had been laying there for a couple of days. So obviously that first wellness check didn't even happen, or they didn't take into consideration how much my uncle's autism would affect how he communicates. My dad ended up filing a complaint with the department, and I think we should sue. But we don't really have the money for that.
Anyways, my uncle was rushed to the hospital. It was found that his cancer had spread to his small intestine and that he had several ulcers that was causing internal bleeding. We were also told that he was dehydrated and disoriented but okay. And because of his fall he either broke his rib or his wrist, I can't remember which one, or it might have been both.
My dad drove down to Pennsylvania today to see him. The doctors weren't completely honest with us.
In addition to what we already knew, my dad found my uncle to be basically emaciated. He had lost a large amount of weight, and he was already skinny. He had also grown a beard from how long he had been left on the floor. They also found that he had blood clots in both his lungs and his legs. They can't treat those because it would make the bleeding ulcers worse. He is still very disoriented and couldn't even tell the difference between his 2 brothers (my dad and my other uncle).
So now they are talking about hospice care, but I honestly don't think he's going to even make it there. From my dad's description it seems like he only has a couple of days left.
I can't go down to see him because I'm getting surgery next week and my mom will not reschedule it just cause of how hard it is to get an appointment for surgery with this doctor. And depending on when he dies, I might not be able to even go to his funeral.
I'm just really overwhelmed and upset right now.
I can't stop imagining him just laying on the floor in pain with no food, water, or bathroom for days on end. He must have been suffering so much.
Anyways, he will be passing on soon. He led a good life, and served his country in the Vietnam War. I just wish he didn't have to suffer like he did and is now.

 

[yukidooki]

when i was about 5 or 6, my grandpa had gotten cancer and he would always refuse to go to the hospital. he would say he's fine or nothing's wrong, it was like 1am that time, i was sleeping and about 3 hours later my parents had to wake me up and that's when i saw everybody gathering around my grandpa's bed, i cried so hard that day..

 

[^𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂_𝓑𝓾𝓷^]

when i was about 5 or 6, my grandpa had gotten cancer and he would always refuse to go to the hospital. he would say he's fine or nothing's wrong, it was like 1am that time, i was sleeping and about 3 hours later my parents had to wake me up and that's when i saw everybody gathering around my grandpa's bed, i cried so hard that day..

I'm so sorry