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I've always felt bad about myself but after I got into k-pop I used to really feel bad about my looks. now it's gotten less but I've never liked taking selfies of myself or looking at myself
thats understandable, i used to HATE the way I looked because I got sucked into the toxic asian beauty standards perspective and now I'm relearning how to love myself and accept that I look the way I look, and I'm not finna waste a million bucks just to feel pretty when I already am. you know ? like I'm not saying I'm the prettiest or most attractive or that I'm better than anyone else or anything but I really do believe and know that everyone is beautiful just the way they are.. like just because some random white guy calls me ugly and fat doesn't necessarily mean I am.. like sure I'm not everyone's ideal weight / body type or visuals, but that doesn't make me unattractive.. there are a handful of people I don't like or really think are gorgeous or mind glowingly beautiful like hunter from xikers or minji from newjeans but that doesn't mean they're unattractive or ugly.. everyone is perceived differently by different people.. but their opinions are not facts, actually matter of FACT everyone should j mind they own damn business and keep they're opinions to themselves because I'm sure PLENTY of people don't give a damn on wether or not you find bella hadid more pretty or gigi hadid more pretty.... NOBODY CARES about your two cents cuzz... but yeah much love agn <3
 

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thats understandable, i used to HATE the way I looked because I got sucked into the toxic asian beauty standards perspective and now I'm relearning how to love myself and accept that I look the way I look, and I'm not finna waste a million bucks just to feel pretty when I already am. you know ? like I'm not saying I'm the prettiest or most attractive or that I'm better than anyone else or anything but I really do believe and know that everyone is beautiful just the way they are.. like just because some random white guy calls me ugly and fat doesn't necessarily mean I am.. like sure I'm not everyone's ideal weight or body type, but that doesn't make me unattractive.. there are a handful of people I don't like or really think are gorgeous or mind glowingly beautiful like hunter from xikers or minji from newjeans but that doesn't mean they're unattractive or ugly.. everyone is perceived differently by different people.. but their opinions are not facts, actually matter of FACT everyone should j mind they own damn business and keep they're opinions to themselves because I'm sure PLENTY of people don't give a damn on wether or not you find bella hadid more pretty or gigi hadid more pretty.... NOBODY CARES about your two cents cuzz... but yeah much love agn <3
ya I get no point in even wasting money just for your looks, bc most people look much better before they even change themselves. I hate that fans are making idols and celebs feel bad for their looks but their no different either
 

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ya I get no point in even wasting money just for your looks, bc most people look much better before they even change themselves. I hate that fans are making idols and celebs feel bad for their looks but their no different either
rightt~..
 

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along with them talking about weight like the fact that fans call jeongyeon fat but I'm stuck on wanting to squeeze her face
exactlyyy shes so beautiful right now.. i also hate the fact that they ignore that it was caused by medical stuff...pmtfo
 

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exactlyyy shes so beautiful right now.. i also hate the fact that they ignore that it was caused by medical stuff...pmtfo
literally 😭, it took my some time to actually realize it was cause because of medical stuff but she's doing fine for the most part so I don't see why people should have problems
 
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