LGBTQ+ Support Thread

[illicee]

hello!! i use she/her/hers pronouns. for a while i considered myself bi and it took a while for me to identify myself as lesbian. i’ve always kinda known i’ve been attracted to girls since i was 9/10 years old.

a while ago i came to the conclusion that i’m most likely aromantic. i would just get nauseous around guys that i knew liked me, and if i thought a guy liked me i would dread having to see them and so for a while i thought this was just how butterflies and having a crush felt (it’s not) and then i started thinking maybe i only feel this way about guys until a girl told me she liked me and i felt the same way, sick and a little uncomfortable at the thought of someone seeing me romantically. anyways i’ve also started thinking i’m maybe somewhere on the asexual spectrum too. anyways that’s who i am and how i identify

 

[Seogi]

I think I know what I am now, and I'm so happy and proud idc what people say!

 

[ThatMoonChild]

I think I know what I am now, and I'm so happy and proud idc what people say!

That's good! i wish i could say the same

 

[rori]

what am i?

 

[Rengya_Utoma]

I hate when our own people undermine the other sexualities under the multispec! Like bro. And people really deada*s would have a whole entire full-blown debate about what YOU identify as. Like WHAT? It's not that serious bro. They be like "UhM AcKTsUAlLY ThAT'S jUsT *insert sexuality here*, tHaT'S jUsT ThE sAmE tHinG ☝"

Like bro, you are NOT the lgbtqia+ analyst my guy. That that sh*t somewhere else

 

[Seogi]

what am i?

Anything you want to be <3

 

[Seogi]

That's good! i wish i could say the same

You'll get there! Don't worry!

 

[Seungmins_cheesecake]

I'm bi and I go by she/her
My grandmother is Christian and I've been afraid to tell her that i'm bi.
Even though, My parents say it's going to be okay... i'm still terrified of telling my grandmother...
Any ideas of how I can overcome my fear??

 

[ThatMoonChild]

i think i'm a demiboy...idkk
I know i am pansexual and poly....Idk..

 

[rori]

they say be whoever u wanna be, what if you don't know who you wanna be?

 

[Seogi]

I'm bi and I go by she/her
My grandmother is Christian and I've been afraid to tell her that i'm bi.
Even though, My parents say it's going to be okay... i'm still terrified of telling my grandmother...
Any ideas of how I can overcome my fear??

Straight up tell her. Being LGBQT is not wrong, so if she doesn't support you, then you know who to trust.

 

[Seogi]

they say be whoever u wanna be, what if you don't know who you wanna be?

Felt that on another level.

 

[izyun]

sometimes i contemplate going back to she/her bc of irl and the constant videos i see of people saying "go by based off whats in your pants", but at the same anytime someone misgenders me, i do get upset bc ive comfortable about going by they/them. tbh idk what to do.

 

[izyun]

sometimes i contemplate going back to she/her bc of irl and the constant videos i see of people saying "go by based off whats in your pants", but at the same anytime someone misgenders me, i do get upset bc ive comfortable about going by they/them. tbh idk what to do.

and also when people say you cant go by they/them bc theres only 2 genders makes me feel like i have to go back to she/her

 

[ThatMoonChild]

I might be demiromantic or asexual...idk

 

[ThatMoonChild]

I might be demiromantic or asexual...idk

or demisexual
i honestly don't know what I am atp

 

[Rengya_Utoma]

So many people claim my sexuality isn't a real thing, it's soooo annoyinggg

 

[vampyrxe]

The way I think I might like boys but I also don't know if that's like REAL attraction

 

[vampyrxe]

The way I think I might like boys but I also don't know if that's like REAL attraction

maybe I just think they're pretty or wtv

 

[simply_moa]

i'm confused if aromantic and asexual are the same thing..