you're right. possible depression is something i hadn't thought of, so ty for a different perspective /genI'm telling you, something is going on with him. This is something I did when I had severe depression, I lashed out at people. I can't say that he has depression, but he needs to be checked on.
there's also a chance he hasn't felt this way for awhile, but said something he thought would hurt her, bc, as the saying goes, hurt people hurt people.