❥--[Mental Health Support Space]

[Horanghae !]

I feel like every time I rant to someone or my friends they say "that sucks" "oh" and "hmm" like you really got nothing better to say? My problems aren't the worse but c'mon. I listen to your problems and try to give advice, but you can't? It's like they only care about themselves and if people listen to them that's all that matters. I know my problems are boring or "not enough" to care about but you can at least listen? I'm telling you because you're my friend I wouldn't just tell anyone.

 

[Zerø_21]

I feel like every time I rant to someone or my friends they say "that sucks" "oh" and "hmm" like you really got nothing better to say? My problems aren't the worse but c'mon. I listen to your problems and try to give advice, but you can't? It's like they only care about themselves and if people listen to them that's all that matters. I know my problems are boring or "not enough" to care about but you can at least listen? I'm telling you because you're my friend I wouldn't just tell anyone.

That's something I can relate to, whenever I want to talk about my problems no one's around, but I still listen to and try to help out other people with my problems.

Normally I just went on my tablet or to my plushies or video games (I get mad and go on fighting sprees), tho if you want to talk, I can say my PM's are always open

 

[pika_chuu]

I feel like every time I rant to someone or my friends they say "that sucks" "oh" and "hmm" like you really got nothing better to say? My problems aren't the worse but c'mon. I listen to your problems and try to give advice, but you can't? It's like they only care about themselves and if people listen to them that's all that matters. I know my problems are boring or "not enough" to care about but you can at least listen? I'm telling you because you're my friend I wouldn't just tell anyone.

I went through a period like that. I was the "counselor" friend. I actually had my friends tell me I would make a really good therapist. But when I told a friend that I thought I had depression, she said, "No, I don't think so, you seem too happy for that." It's not that they care about themselves, but to them their problems are the centre of their world, just like ours are the centre of our worlds. We all think the world revolves around us, and your friends might be unintentionally neglecting you because they're concerned about their own problems. It's not a good thing, but at least it's something to understand. /g

 

[vwuri]

I feel like every time I rant to someone or my friends they say "that sucks" "oh" and "hmm" like you really got nothing better to say? My problems aren't the worse but c'mon. I listen to your problems and try to give advice, but you can't? It's like they only care about themselves and if people listen to them that's all that matters. I know my problems are boring or "not enough" to care about but you can at least listen? I'm telling you because you're my friend I wouldn't just tell anyone.

i'll always listen, unless its me you are talking about..

 

[Horanghae !]

i'll always listen, unless its me you are talking about..

oh thanks and no its not abt you at all

 

[pika_chuu]

I can't. I can't do this. She, a grown woman, basically manipulated me into believing it was my fault. It wasn't my fault. Oh my god. I'm panicking. My chest feels so tight...

 

[pika_chuu]

I can't, I can't do this right now. My life was actually going okay for once and I was happy and then she had to show up i can't i can't i can't.

 

[Lucifer]

I can't, I can't do this right now. My life was actually going okay for once and I was happy and then she had to show up i can't i can't i can't.

Oh my...Are you okay? do you need some time off? Yk you can uh idk dance the chicken dance yk turn around and flap falp idc long time

 

[pika_chuu]

Oh my...Are you okay? do you need some time off? Yk you can uh idk dance the chicken dance yk turn around and flap falp idc long time

I’ll tellyou in pm

 

[Lucifer]

I’ll tellyou in pm

Oh ok

 

[saaylhy]

what hurts me the most is seeing everyone around me being depressed, stressed and having anxiety....
and when i see people in my class being the most happy persons, i ask myself "how do they do?"

 

[pika_chuu]

what hurts me the most is seeing everyone around me being depressed, stressed and having anxiety....
and when i see people in my class being the most happy persons, i ask myself "how do they do?"

Keep in mind:
Looking happy does not equal being happy
And stress, anxiety, and depression aren't horrible things if they're managed well and the person has good coping mechanisms.

 

[saaylhy]

so i just realized that everyone around me is sad-
one of my bestfriend cried when we were at school, and my other friend said that she cried evryday when they were in italy
my crush's issue was a thing between others
and she said to me why she was crying (only to me)
she said that she feels like everybody hates her in our school. and she said that she can't take this anymore, that she feels like she's lonely.
i opened myself a LIIIIIITTLE bit about what's happening theses day. my crush, my friend drowning... and me, who doesn't know what to do
there's always that strengh which prevents me from talking about how i feel right now. i really asked myself "do i tell her?" whereas she is among the people i trust the most.
also my crush acts like nothing happened. but in his stare, i can still see pain. like i feel like i'm the only one who sees that
but between two classes, he had fun with the others with the tables in the class. like he was sitting in a table while another was moving it usually i wouldn't have paid attention but now i'm happy that he's having fun with others. but that was still a dumb thing to do-

 

[Lucifer]

I feel worthless, I feel like i cant be a good son to my parents, I feel like i cant be a good friend to my friend, i feel i cant be a good boyfriend, My online friend left after one year and hakf of talking we shared problems and shit but now he left JUST BCOF THAT STUIPD PIECE OF SHIT. I feel hopeless but not at the same time...Like I feel that my friends hate me...I think i should cut off my friends for a while...Like i wanna eh myself but no i feel thats the easy way out...LIKE IM SUPPOSE TO ENJOY MY LIFE BUT I CANT CAUSE IM GETTING TURN DOWN I FEEL OUT OF PLACE i dont feel me i feel...no one
But i just rant online what do i expect a new life a new start no...i really want to tell my parents but not nor my teachers or friends

 

[LostInTheDream]

TW//Weight, SH, and depression

So I had my first episode in like years (I'm Bipolar). It was a depressive episode and it lasted from November until March. My psychiatrist thought it was a brilliant idea to go down on one of my meds, triggering the episode. I ended up SHing for the first time in over 2 years. But I feel better now because my meds went back up and I got an increase on another med.
The thing about this med is is that it causes a lack of appetite. For the past week I have been barely able to eat 2 meals a day.
Part of my is really happy about this becuse it means I'm losing weight, and I'm pretty sure I already did.
But then I'm like no stop you're already borderline underweight.
Idk we'll see where it goes. I wouldn't mind getting down to a certain weight. I won't list numbers so I don't trigger anyone.
Fun times

 

[pika_chuu]

I feel worthless, I feel like i cant be a good son to my parents, I feel like i cant be a good friend to my friend, i feel i cant be a good boyfriend, My online friend left after one year and hakf of talking we shared problems and shit but now he left JUST BCOF THAT STUIPD PIECE OF SHIT. I feel hopeless but not at the same time...Like I feel that my friends hate me...I think i should cut off my friends for a while...Like i wanna eh myself but no i feel thats the easy way out...LIKE IM SUPPOSE TO ENJOY MY LIFE BUT I CANT CAUSE IM GETTING TURN DOWN I FEEL OUT OF PLACE i dont feel me i feel...no one
But i just rant online what do i expect a new life a new start no...i really want to tell my parents but not nor my teachers or friends

Babe… No it’s me who hasn’t been a good boyfriend. I haven’t been reaching out as much as I should, and I’ve been selfish. Because in a relationship, there should be equal amounts of give and take, and I’ve been doing all the taking. I’ve been coming to you with my problems and then leaving them with you, and we haven’t been sharing any good times together. So you’re not a bad boyfriend… I am :c
As for everything else, I don’t know. You’ll be able to move out when you graduate, like I’m going to do. It gets better, even if it doesn’t seem like it.

 

[Lucifer]

Babe… No it’s me who hasn’t been a good boyfriend. I haven’t been reaching out as much as I should, and I’ve been selfish. Because in a relationship, there should be equal amounts of give and take, and I’ve been doing all the taking. I’ve been coming to you with my problems and then leaving them with you, and we haven’t been sharing any good times together. So you’re not a bad boyfriend… I am :c
As for everything else, I don’t know. You’ll be able to move out when you graduate, like I’m going to do. It gets better, even if it doesn’t seem like it.

Eh its still counts as me since i should be talking to you more yk.
Yeah but ehh i really wish i could talk to my friend one last time yk...oh and yeah ill be abke to move if im not broke lol

 

[pika_chuu]

Eh its still counts as me since i should be talking to you more yk.
Yeah but ehh i really wish i could talk to my friend one last time yk...oh and yeah ill be abke to move if im not broke lol

It’s not always on you to talk to me TT

 

[Horanghae !]

tw- ig harm?
today, my friend and i were playing but she took it too far and started choking me really hard and it hurt so bad. she act like it didn't hurt and was saying i was just being a baby. she also slaps me, punches me, and threatens me. i really don't like her but i just cant stop being friends with her because i'm friends with all of her friends...i just hate that everyday i get hurt by them

 

[Lucifer]

It’s not always on you to talk to me TT

Sorry