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[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

I finished What Would Jamie Do? (Jimin "Jamie" Park's podcast) a few weeks ago and was inspired to create this. You can ask me questions or give me scenarios, and I will try my best to put myself in your shoes and give you advice based on what I would do.

Disclaimer:
The advice I give is what I would do in the given situation, and it may not work for everyone. Also, the picture is not me. Well, it's like part of me. It's my face morphed into Jessica Jung's (former Girls' Generation member).

I'm also thinking about doing a live broadcast when I go to school​

 

[moonlight]

this is a good idea!

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

I guess this was a flop

 

[jenosimp]

i think this is a really neat idea and its very kind of u to be willing to do this!

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

i think this is a really neat idea and its very kind of u to be willing to do this!

Thank you ☺

 

[myheartizomg]

This a wonderful thread idea and very considerate of you ^^

I've been wondering how do you deal with someone you've known for a long time dropping you like you meant nothing to them. Unfortunately I experienced this very recently and I've been thinking of texting her but she started this conflict between us, she was the first to ignore me and accuse me unfairly of stupid things. Part of me wants to text her but the other doesn't cause it looks like she no longer wants anything to do with me and I kinda feel the same way but I value my close friendships. However I shouldn't be the only one giving shit about something that involves two people. I'm sorry if it all appears to be extra confusing cause it is.

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

This a wonderful thread idea and very considerate of you ^^

I've been wondering how do you deal with someone you've known for a long time dropping you like you meant nothing to them. Unfortunately I experienced this very recently and I've been thinking of texting her but she started this conflict between us, she was the first to ignore me and accuse me unfairly of stupid things. Part of me wants to text her but the other doesn't cause it looks like she no longer wants anything to do with me and I kinda feel the same way but I value my close friendships. However I shouldn't be the only one giving shit about something that involves two people. I'm sorry if it all appears to be extra confusing cause it is.

I've actually been the one to drop people, but I won't talk bad about them even if they were toxic. If I was in your situation, I would give her some space for a couple of weeks because I think if she came back to me willingly, it means she values our friendship. Also, I might ask people that I know are close to her why she might be ignoring me and accusing me of stupid stuff. Sometimes, people can hold grudges over little things (I'm guilty of this) and don't want to admit that they're being unreasonable.

 

[myheartizomg]

I've actually been the one to drop people, but I won't talk bad about them even if they were toxic. If I was in your situation, I would give her some space for a couple of weeks because I think if she came back to me willingly, it means she values our friendship. Also, I might ask people that I know are close to her why she might be ignoring me and accusing me of stupid stuff. Sometimes, people can hold grudges over little things (I'm guilty of this) and don't want to admit that they're being unreasonable.

It all makes sense. Ig time will show. Thanks a lot.

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

It all makes sense. Ig time will show. Thanks a lot.

Anytime ❤

 

[Love_alize071313]

How do I go about this? I'm nervous to becoming an adult. I know it's two years away but two years fly fast. I don't know how to taxes or open a shop like i'm planning to. My parents don't know how to open a shop either and they haven't been helpful with taxes (they explained it but not clearly) I'm scared I'll be a failure as an adult. How do i not be as scared or nervous? How can I avoid being a failure?

 

[Dremes]

I need help. I've started to realize that I'm getting taken advantage of in relationships because of my body. I always get emotionally attached so when I find out their real intentions I have a hard time leaving. I feel like my current boyfriend is just like that, when he gets what he wants he'll just throw me aside. What do I do? I don't want my heart to break again. I know I shouldn't have to do this considering I'm only 13 but I really need help.

 

[Love_alize071313]

@VIPJACKAHGADAY you are called... you are needed fam TT TT

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

How do I go about this? I'm nervous to becoming an adult. I know it's two years away but two years fly fast. I don't know how to taxes or open a shop like i'm planning to. My parents don't know how to open a shop either and they haven't been helpful with taxes (they explained it but not clearly) I'm scared I'll be a failure as an adult. How do i not be as scared or nervous? How can I avoid being a failure?

I think it's normal to be nervous about reaching adulthood. There's a lot of uncertainty surrounding it, and uncertainty can give us anxiety. Regarding the taxes, if you plan on going to college after high school, you can ask what resources they have to help you with this. If not, you can visit this website: cashcourse.org . They have topics and resources that can help you with taxes, saving money, loans, etc. As for starting a business, I don't know much about that. The closest thing I have experienced was selling a few items on eBay. But if I was planning to open up a shop (I actually thought about opening up an origami shop with my friend), I would start saving money to offset the amount on the loan I might have to take out. I would also consider other things such as how big of a shop I would want, hiring people, and the cost of producing or purchasing the items I want to sell. I think to offset your apprehension, it would be best to plan ahead. And don't be afraid to fail. Failing doesn't necessarily make you a failure. It's just a bump in the road, and those bumps teach you lessons. So essentially, failure plus perseverance leads to success, and you can't really obtain success without a little failure. So if your intial plan doesn't work out, just create a new one. Anything's possible. I wish you the best of luck on your journey into adulthood.

 

[Love_alize071313]

I think it's normal to be nervous about reaching adulthood. There's a lot of uncertainty surrounding it, and uncertainty can give us anxiety. Regarding the taxes, if you plan on going to college after high school, you can ask what resources they have to help you with this. If not, you can visit this website: cashcourse.org . They have topics and resources that can help you with taxes, saving money, loans, etc. As for starting a business, I don't know much about that. The closest thing I have experienced was selling a few items on eBay. But if I was planning to open up a shop (I actually thought about opening up an origami shop with my friend), I would start saving money to offset the amount on the loan I might have to take out. I would also consider other things such as how big of a shop I would want, hiring people, and the cost of producing or purchasing the items I want to sell. I think to offset your apprehension, it would be best to plan ahead. And don't be afraid to fail. Failing doesn't necessarily make you a failure. It's just a bump in the road, and those bumps teach you lessons. So essentially, failure plus perseverance leads to success, and you can't really obtain success without a little failure. So if your intial plan doesn't work out, just create a new one. Anything's possible. I wish you the best of luck on your journey into adulthood.

thanx, this helped ❤

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

I need help. I've started to realize that I'm getting taken advantage of in relationships because of my body. I always get emotionally attached so when I find out their real intentions I have a hard time leaving. I feel like my current boyfriend is just like that, when he gets what he wants he'll just throw me aside. What do I do? I don't want my heart to break again. I know I shouldn't have to do this considering I'm only 13 but I really need help.

Can you explain what you mean by taking advantage of your body? Because I'm thinking of one thing, but I don't want to assume and give you the wrong advice, especially since you're young.

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

thanx, this helped ❤

You're welcome! Thank you for sharing your problem

 

[Dremes]

Can you explain what you mean by taking advantage of your body? Because I'm thinking of one thing, but I don't want to assume and give you the wrong advice, especially since you're young.

So basically I was sexually assaulted by one of my exs. He would always do that sort of stuff bc I'm more mature (aka more developed). I seem to always let it happen because I don't want them to leave and they end up leaving anyways but still. Like when I say taken advantage I mean like they get with me because of my body, they do what they want and they leave.

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

I need help. I've started to realize that I'm getting taken advantage of in relationships because of my body. I always get emotionally attached so when I find out their real intentions I have a hard time leaving. I feel like my current boyfriend is just like that, when he gets what he wants he'll just throw me aside. What do I do? I don't want my heart to break again. I know I shouldn't have to do this considering I'm only 13 but I really need help.

So basically I was sexually assaulted by one of my exs. He would always do that sort of stuff bc I'm more mature (aka more developed). I seem to always let it happen because I don't want them to leave and they end up leaving anyways but still. Like when I say taken advantage I mean like they get with me because of my body, they do what they want and they leave.

I'm sorry you had to experience that, especially at a young age. I have the same problem of getting emotionally attached to guys. It's common for people to stay in unhealthy relationships for many reasons. The most common one is that they've been in the relationship for so long that they don't think their partner would treat them badly. If I was in your situation, I would consider what my boyfriend loves about me. If a guy only wants to get in your pants, he's not worth it, especially if you get emotionally attached to your partners. If you are a hopeless romantic like me, you're probably longing for a long-term romantic relationship that you find in movies, TV shows, books, etc. and are disappointed when the reality is far from it. For me, balance in a relationship is very important. If my partner is not making as much of an effort in our relationship, then I get the sense that they don't care. If you're unhappy in your relationship, don't be afraid to leave. It's a hard decision to make, but you'll be better off. And know that experiencing heartbreak is a part of finding the right person. You're young, so you don't need to stress about finding the right partner. I would actually advise spending time loving yourself instead of others for the sake of figuring out what you really want in a relationship.

 

[Dremes]

I'm sorry you had to experience that, especially at a young age. I have the same problem of getting emotionally attached to guys. It's common for people to stay in unhealthy relationships for many reasons. The most common one is that they've been in the relationship for so long that they don't think their partner would treat them badly. If I was in your situation, I would consider what my boyfriend loves about me. If a guy only wants to get in your pants, he's not worth it, especially if you get emotionally attached to your partners. If you are a hopeless romantic like me, you're probably longing for a long-term romantic relationship that you find in movies, TV shows, books, etc. and are disappointed when the reality is far from it. For me, balance in a relationship is very important. If my partner is not making as much of an effort in our relationship, then I get the sense that they don't care. If you're unhappy in your relationship, don't be afraid to leave. It's a hard decision to make, but you'll be better off. And know that experiencing heartbreak is a part of finding the right person. You're young, so you don't need to stress about finding the right partner. I would actually advise spending time loving yourself instead of others for the sake of figuring out what you really want in a relationship.

Thank you so much, this helped a lot.

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

Thank you so much, this helped a lot.

Anytime