Okay this is really heartbreaking to me and I can't believe I have to post about this but it looks like I have to
(by the way, this is not directed towards anyone here, i love all of you very much)
You are not a fan if...
1) You consistently bash other groups and hate on them for the "benefit" of your group.
2) You are a solo stan/hate on the rest of the members of your group.
3) You hate on idols for being human (dating, swearing, smoking, etc.).
4) You post about k-pop on irrelevant posts saying, "well xyz wouldn't have happened if they stanned (group name)" (Yes I have witnessed this on a heartbreaking post about someone who unfortunately passed away.)
5) You are a sasaeng/stalk your idols. (There have been bad cases, one that comes to my mind is where Got7's Jackson was in a car accident because of a sasaeng.)
6) You don't accept other fans. I don't care what you believe, you had better be respectful towards others. It is okay to disagree about beliefs, but what is not okay is bashing others.
This has been a Ted Talk, please read and comment below if I was too harsh. I love people and I cannot stand negativity, let alone myself being negative but I have seen so many horrible things as of late that I just cannot You're all wonderful and I love you so much, if you do these things unconsciously it is okay, just be mindful and please stop. If you do these things knowing full well that they are bad, well, you are a big meanie.
(by the way, this is not directed towards anyone here, i love all of you very much)
You are not a fan if...
1) You consistently bash other groups and hate on them for the "benefit" of your group.
2) You are a solo stan/hate on the rest of the members of your group.
3) You hate on idols for being human (dating, swearing, smoking, etc.).
4) You post about k-pop on irrelevant posts saying, "well xyz wouldn't have happened if they stanned (group name)" (Yes I have witnessed this on a heartbreaking post about someone who unfortunately passed away.)
5) You are a sasaeng/stalk your idols. (There have been bad cases, one that comes to my mind is where Got7's Jackson was in a car accident because of a sasaeng.)
6) You don't accept other fans. I don't care what you believe, you had better be respectful towards others. It is okay to disagree about beliefs, but what is not okay is bashing others.
This has been a Ted Talk, please read and comment below if I was too harsh. I love people and I cannot stand negativity, let alone myself being negative but I have seen so many horrible things as of late that I just cannot You're all wonderful and I love you so much, if you do these things unconsciously it is okay, just be mindful and please stop. If you do these things knowing full well that they are bad, well, you are a big meanie.